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My husband is extremely organized and a neat freak. Everything of his needs to be in proper place and he detests any kind of mess, his bed is made as soon as he wakes up, even his clothes need to go on different hangers which he has for them. You will never see anything laying around after he leaves for work. Now that's fine with me as long as he doesn't expect me to do all that organizing and he actually doesn't so it works out great. Now when I visit him, Im home mostly all day and he's at work so it makes sense for me to do the chores instead of making him do them. Well actually my mil does everything but I do like to step in and cook, do the dishes because she's exhausted after work and I hate to have her stand there washing everything so late at night. And for my husband, I make his favorite stuff and do his laundry, get up early to make his breakfast and eat with him. Now post-rukhsati, I think Im pretty much gonna be doing everything because Im not gonna be working for atleast a few months. I wouldn't want him to come back all tired and then have to vacuum or do anything, I want him to be pampered. That's something I realized when I started working, I don't feel like doing anything except eating and laying down when I go back home from work, Im just so exhausted. However, things will change when I start working but I would still want to keep the chores light on his part because his career is way more demanding than mine.
Choose your battles wisely.
Not everyone is worth wasting time over.
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