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chips6 · Nov 1st, 2009, 10:43 PM

^^ I might be wrong here or others might not agree with me.But you have to learn to forgive and forget.Might be easier said than done but that's how I feel.
What others say does effect and influence a relationship but its against that you have to keep the relationship strong.
I can dig up a million things my husband said to me(or he can dig up what I said to him and which was wrong absolutely)or what any of his family members said to me.they haunt me and still make me feel sad and will always do.But I cannot leave the one man I have grown to love over the years.Yes there are moments when I am not liking him this much,but I don't think any of it should be the reason to quit.
I have learnt to live with a few of his shortcomings and so has he..so we reached a middle ground somewhere and never noticed the transition I think...

I am not saying that a person whose personality drives you totally insane,is still compatible as a spouse.I am not talking about extreme things because obviously those need some serious thinking!!

Nov 1st, 2009, 10:43 PM	#13 (permalink)
chips6 Senior Member Join Date: May 24, 2006 Location: where the skies are blue... Posts: 1,307 Blogs: 172	^^ I might be wrong here or others might not agree with me.But you have to learn to forgive and forget.Might be easier said than done but that's how I feel. What others say does effect and influence a relationship but its against that you have to keep the relationship strong. I can dig up a million things my husband said to me(or he can dig up what I said to him and which was wrong absolutely)or what any of his family members said to me.they haunt me and still make me feel sad and will always do.But I cannot leave the one man I have grown to love over the years.Yes there are moments when I am not liking him this much,but I don't think any of it should be the reason to quit. I have learnt to live with a few of his shortcomings and so has he..so we reached a middle ground somewhere and never noticed the transition I think... I am not saying that a person whose personality drives you totally insane,is still compatible as a spouse.I am not talking about extreme things because obviously those need some serious thinking!! It's better to light a candle ,than to curse the darkness. Last edited by chips6; Nov 1st, 2009 at 10:49 PM..