zobia

would you liked to be judged through your personality/appearance? your actions? or the outcomes of your actions/deeds?

ps. the way we think might affect all of the above way one may get judged, but it has very less tangible stand in the above running.

zobia

and also how do you judge others?

~SONA~

No one can judge me better than myself because people can't see whats inside me. They only tell what they see, for me its ideal to be judged by Looks and Appearance. That makes me flattered.

Bushra

Mery dress out of fashion hoty hain hamysha doston ko shikayat rahi main bhi dhun ki pakki hon khati bhi man bhata hon pehnti bhiJag bhat aya Judge bhata ki kabhi perwa nahi ki and u know jahan judge ka mala aey you have to pay for ............... Perwa nahi

~SONA~

Can you say it into chyneez please, so I can understand?

Enya

Dua_G

its really difficult to judge others because sometime their appearance & words never match with their actions. And i believe that "Actions speak louder than words". its not necessary that the person who is well dressed will be well mannered.
the thing that how i would liked to be judge by others then definaitly by my actions & my behaviour not by my appearance.

Arleitter

I do not have time to judge others.Abt myself....... I do not care in which manner/way others judge me .

You be yourself...That's all.

Jaanwar

We may not realize it, but we are constantly judging others. First impression/appearance of people, their dressing, most importantly how they talk. Knowingly or otherwise we make an image of that person and sometimes treat them accordingly i.e. we will be very friendly with some people and not that friendly with some others. Someone could strike as an arrogant and/or ignorant person, but after a conversation we realize that we were wrong. I believe it happens with all of us. Judgement is a natural process, it is the process of taking in the information we gather from our surroundings and processing it based on our experience and knowledge. Sometimes we are right, sometimes not.

Judging excessively is the problem. And judging people out loud in presence of other people, discussing people, and labeling people without really knowing much about them - these are the flaws of mind and character.

sanadubai

i judge others firstly there way of talking

Chicken Biryani

Very well put Jaanwar .. Often I see people claiming tht they dont judge others and neither should they be judged ... I feel, that may be a slightly materialistic approach , coz we are not living in seclusion, how we behave, how we come across to others has an affect on those around us... and hence its extremely important to know how we are being judged or perceived by others ..

It only helps us all become better human beings at the end of the day.

fayax

Hey speak for yourself - I am living in seclusion. Almost.


True. I know this is not an Islamic thread, but even Islamically we are to present ourselves in the best manners and in the best 'possible' attire.

Monk

Chicken Biryani

Fayax .. we are all here for you

queer

K337

why wud i like to be judged?:

Straight_up

I'd like to be assessed on my overall ability to engage people.

jimm1909

I'd also like to be judged on my ability to engage people

ImranQ

First views then actions. PM is right it makes you self-consious when there comes a bit too much praise. I worry very little about openions people hold of me only rerely i make conscious efferts to counter delusion.

mirage

People should not be judged and condemned as individuals. That is purely disgusting and misanthropy. Behaviours should be judged and corrected. This is how i would judge someone or vice versa.