To get away for a few, i went and met my friends Naji, Najis sis and Riz.

We met up at the Trafford Centre and went to Nandos to eat. I was so stuffed because i hadnt eaten in some days properly, and i felt like my stomach had shrunk...that iftari feeling.

Khair after that we went shopping around.

Funniest thing to happen was Najis sis had a hot pink leather bag.

Naji who qualified as a lawyer at 25 and has slightly become ego'd over it...

Hubby is like asking me why i look so pareshan. And i told him. I am sick of living so many years of my life like this. With biatches constantly tearing everything up. I am sick of it. Its emotionally exhausting. Its mentally consuming. I sometimes think that mebbe ill have a nervous breakdown some day. I hate this,..

I want my home to be a home. I dont want biatches making every little thing an issue. I want my mum to have peace. She has put up with so much for so long. And i see...

Oh haan....i did go over to Sheenas so when i came home they had huge boothas on.

I came in and sat down and mami ( who is like their only friend and is an equal biatch) says to me...

What are you wearing? ( in a looking down manner)
I said shalwar kameez
she goes its budhon wala rang (it was white with brown karhai on it)
I said really? its got embroidery and sequins on it ( they were hidden under jacket)
I said sheena brought it
...

The latest and its unfortunate there has be another update on the bhabis is this.

They are not liking Sheena and Waqas either

They wanted Sheena to be a personal slave, and since she has her own house and does her own thing they dont like it. They further dont like that she is friends with Moona. ( the girl in pics)

I should say Elderbhabi, cuz Second chance doesnt care.

Well EB is like all pissed off at sheena for living her...

Why is this happenin?

We are a largely soft family.

We dont know baymani/chalaki/khusyari.

My dads side of the family are largely polite, warm people.

These girls are from mums side....and we just cant get them.

Pingle and Tahira have mums genes....and are the only ones in the family who can get right back at them.

I think mum and dad just try to keep the peace. They are weaker than the bhabis, so they ask...

On other notes:

Hubby is coming today.

No, im not too happy.

Not because he is coming, but generally.....just takes me a few days to get over stuff

Yep Chornu, since 14.

The year she came it was HELL on earth. Like i had never seen kick offs before, i had never encountered bakcward mentality....or come home to disturbing scenes...but it has pretty much been....HELL from the word go.

Just a few incidents that for what ever reason stick:

-14 saal ki ladkiyan masjid bhi jati hea? Get her out of mosque ( parents took me out of mosque)

14 saal ki ladkiyan kaffi dishes bana leti hea, kam...

Things are better, i feel better

I had to go to both sets of friends, we talked the situation out

I told them that the situation had gotten out of hand. Bhabis keep pulling them into shyte to get back at us. They are used pawns. I dont want them to be humiliated like that again, and i dont trust my bhabis.

I told them kay mea jab jab bristol se aya karugi, id come meet them myself. My doors were open to them...away from the nazar of the bhabis. So they...

There should be a stress icon

It should have my face

Lets say...the worst happened.

My friends and their families kicked off with my bhabis.

My bhabis kicked them out of their homes inc. ours saying they're all ours.

Right now i hate everyone

I feel so fking stress sick.

I am sick and tired of this happening.

Y'day was like my first day off work...and i have been REALLY looking forward to spending a few days off at home before heading of to bristol on the weekend....

I have to meet FIL and UKnand.


Must say me and my nands have a (touchwood) good r/ship.


I make such a nice bhabi

That said, their main qualm with me is kay why i dont like Denmark, and how i've brought their brother away

Isnt that better thsn staing and making hell?

The other fk up is the house we were looking to rent..

They made us paid 380quid on application fees to tell

1) me that i earned too less
2) that hubby had a 14 day gap in between previous employment and his new one

They add that we need a guarantor...whos fees are 90quid and who has to come to bristol to sign the documents....

I wanted to scream this morning.

I EARN TOO LESS, HE HAS A GAP...PAY US MORE FEES
...

The better part of my life is this:

Dad actually loves the sofas, as we suspected he would. He was scared that they'd be contemporary tiny miny one seater things, that wouldnt do the job that a new settee could

But when he saw the jumbo size monsters...he loved them

And today:

I had a me day.

All about me.

Me and Farah went to Starbucks for a coffee...sat and chatted for ages.
Me went...

Plz God intervene

Kisi ek ko apnay paas bula lein

coz seriously....someone has to go