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Posted Feb 1st, 2009 at 04:13 AM by PSquared
Updated Feb 1st, 2009 at 08:52 PM by PSquared

Im sure all of you have already read about how crazy I am about my niece. No, Im not wierd. All of us love our nieces and nephews, of course! I guess for me its really deep because her birth Mashallah, changed a lot of things in my family.

My father is a diabetic, 3 time stroke survivor and a heart patient. After going so much, he had become quiet, a bit emotional and reserved, not sure of the word Im looking for here. The doctor had warned us of this though. We accepted it and did our best to take care of him.

My mom worked hard all her life...the stories I could tell you guys. Amazing and unbelievable.

My sisters and I were at odds most of the time because of whatever reason. We're all strong headed, independant and opinionated.

When my niece came along, things changed. She brought us all together in a way Ive never seen before. Mashallah. My dad has a fear of planes now but he sat in one two weeks ago just for the baby. He is her favorite playmate and she adores him more then any of us. Yeah, Im jealous...lol. When we got to Boston, she saw my dad and screamed "Nannaaaa Ajaoooooo", ran to his arms and just hugged him forever. He had tears in his eyes. Ive never seen him so happy and so alive. He went all over the city with us, which again doesnt happen a lot. He prefers to be home. But for my niece, he would do anything.

My mom took care of her since the day she was born and she loved every minute of it. She became so involved in my niece, she barely noticed the day go by. We were worried she would be bored and lonely now that she isnt working but she was more then fine. They would sit down and have reading time and even prayed together! Mashallah. She would follow my mom around and do dum on everyone! LOL. My mother's day revolved around her feeding and pooping schedule...

My sisters and I never bickered again, save for a few light arguments here and there. Her birth changed us all and we became a completely different bunch. For Sumaiya, all of us were willing to put everything behind. I remember crying when I first held her, couldnt believe I was a Khala now...well, according to her...Hala but still. She became the center of our world and no one said no to her. With so much spunk and life, how could she not? Everywhere she went, she made friends and was a hit! How can anyone not love a child like that?

With her coming into the world, my family changed for the better. Maybe thats why Im so emotional when it comes to her and also children in general. They represent only good and trust you so willingly. They're masoom and untainted by the world so they love unconditionally. They're our future and such a sweet future too. She brought out a side of myself, my sisters, my parents that I thought was gone. With just one beautiful smile.

This is my little angel. Please say Mashallah and give her a small dua that she stays happy forever. Ameen.
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    Aisha Dubaiwali's Avatar
    Mashallah allah kare she stays happy and smiling forever ameen sum ameen mashallah pretty little angel
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    Posted Feb 1st, 2009 at 04:33 AM by Aisha Dubaiwali Aisha Dubaiwali is offline
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    Lois Lane's Avatar
    MashaAllah soo adorable!
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    Posted Feb 1st, 2009 at 05:25 AM by Lois Lane Lois Lane is offline
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    aahmed's Avatar
    PS, I know what you mean, my parents live with my brother and when he had his daughter 16 months ago, it changed everyone's lives. My dad, who never lifted a finger in his life (typical desi dad), now follows her around all day, plays with her all day, reads to her, is her favorite play pal. The love she has for her 'dadaa' is just heart warming and i KNOW that my dad lives for her now. Same with my mom, my mom is also diabetic and in general sickly. But about a year after the grand daughter came, she went for her annual physical and the doc said that there is a remarkable improvement in her health, amazing.

    My dad is using words I've never in my life heard him say like "i love you", "sweet heart", etc. Kids are such a blessing mashallah.

    Your niece is beautiful mashallah and she looks incredibly cheeky. God bless her with a wonderful and righteous life.
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    Posted Feb 1st, 2009 at 06:21 AM by aahmed aahmed is offline
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    Colourful eyes's Avatar
    Aww Masha Allah, Masha Allah, she looks so mischievous and adorable...
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    Posted Feb 1st, 2009 at 07:11 AM by Colourful eyes Colourful eyes is offline
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    Sahar02's Avatar
    Aw MashAllah. How wonderful to have such a blessed little one!
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    Posted Feb 1st, 2009 at 07:28 AM by Sahar02 Sahar02 is offline
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    mehroo's Avatar
    Woh kahtay haeN na kay bachooN kay bachaay bohat payaray lagtay haeN , that is so true and I agree with the a part how a child bring so many changes in everyone's life :-)

    mashAllah adorable girl .
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    Posted Feb 1st, 2009 at 09:49 AM by mehroo mehroo is offline
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    lifeless's Avatar
    sucha cute picture, captures what you wrote about her, and what a sweet entry
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    Posted Feb 1st, 2009 at 11:38 AM by lifeless lifeless is offline
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    sweetpoison's Avatar
    Masha'Allah shoo cute she is
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    Posted Feb 1st, 2009 at 11:50 AM by sweetpoison sweetpoison is offline
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    Fatso's Avatar
    she is a cutie.. mashallah
    love her smile
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    Posted Feb 1st, 2009 at 12:44 PM by Fatso Fatso is offline
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    sweet.i.f's Avatar
    Wow! That was such a beautiful and heart warming entry. Anyone can see how much you love your neice, and your neice is very lucky to have such a loving khala and nana and nani. Mashallah she is such a cute doll. Looks oh so cheeky! May Allah swt keep your neice you and your family happy and always like this =] Ameen.
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    what a cute lil girl, masha'Allah. loved the entry too.
    May Allah bless her and keep her safe and happy always, ameen.
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    Posted Feb 1st, 2009 at 01:45 PM by ~Namkeen~ ~Namkeen~ is offline
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    Aww, sweet, Mash'Allah.
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    Posted Feb 1st, 2009 at 05:30 PM by Munni Munni is offline
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    Chipkali's Avatar
    Mash'Allah, such a sweeeeet little angel! May Allah (swt) keep you all in his protection & in happiness, always -Ameen XxX
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    Posted Feb 1st, 2009 at 06:07 PM by Chipkali Chipkali is offline
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    tinker85's Avatar
    PS!....dats very sweeet!!..n mashaAllAh ur niece is very lovely tooo...wats her name?..childrens can make wonderfull changes just by their presence...same thing happened in my family too wen my bro got blessed by a daughter!, everyone went thru positive changes...childrens give new meanings 2 life!..
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    Posted Feb 1st, 2009 at 06:44 PM by tinker85 tinker85 is offline
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    PSquared's Avatar
    Thank you everyone for the duas.

    Tinker, her name is Sumaiya.

    Ahmed Bhai, I can tell your little one is the same way...a reason to live for everyone. Once these little babies arrive, you dont know how you ever lived without them.
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    Posted Feb 1st, 2009 at 08:51 PM by PSquared PSquared is offline
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    MiamisweetheartX's Avatar
    awww, this brought tears to my eyes. May she get all the happiness possible
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    Posted Feb 2nd, 2009 at 12:04 AM by MiamisweetheartX MiamisweetheartX is offline
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    sadzzz's Avatar
    aww i missed her pic

    and i know.. kids are a blessing.. now i feel bad for being in a bad mood with my munchkin..

    when my neice was born, my dad changed as well.. he had a stroke earlier that year and i just didnt know what would make him better... now he mashallah has three granddaughters and although they are totally nuts, i dont think he'd want it any other way... one carries his medicine for him, the other immitates how nana abu has it... halarious...

    grandchildren are a blessing... they give permission to grandparents (and adults in general) to behave like kids again...
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    Posted Feb 2nd, 2009 at 12:13 AM by sadzzz sadzzz is offline
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    Skittlez's Avatar
    Thats beautiful! You're right, children are truly a blessing and a gift from God.
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    Posted Feb 2nd, 2009 at 12:58 AM by Skittlez Skittlez is offline
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    UZ's Avatar
    MAshallah May ALLAH bless her long life ameen
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    Posted Feb 2nd, 2009 at 02:10 AM by UZ UZ is offline
 

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