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feeling unloved

Posted Jun 29th, 2009 at 11:50 PM by sadzzz

so on friday night I had i bawled.. hehe... cus i felt quite unloved. Actually not unloved, but friendless.

I miss having friends

I used to have a good bunch of friends my age... things over the past few years have gone really sour though.. i thought, what the heck.. fine i'll deal with it... but then i logged onto facebook last friday and to my utter surpise, i saw that all these people who i had been friends with, and who had different points of the lives had used me as a "friend" cus none of the others wanted to befreind them.. had becomes the "bestest" of friends... really. These are people who were rejected, and i befreiended them, gave them my time... and now they sit together.. without me

khair, i mean i dont really want to be friends with people who do this... but i imiss having friends... i have friends.. but they are younger.. and others who live nowhere near me..

I need adult conversation... work friends are just not the same as u know other friends..

i know i should be content with my life.. yes i am... i am... i just u know... miss the girlie stuff

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	Yeah, eversince I moved home I have zero friends here to go out with or talk to. Everything must be done online, which just isnt the same. I hope you find friends soon, why dont you go to the local muslim events and maybe start up a conversation with the ladies?
	Posted Jun 29th, 2009 at 11:55 PM by Munni

	its so hard munni... all the friends i had since i was a kid have basically turned out to be.. just aaagh. I feel rather betrayed but i should thank Allah really... i mean i dont want my daughter growing up with people like that
	Posted Jun 30th, 2009 at 12:20 AM by sadzzz

	It is hard I am sure, but its better to focus on new ties that you can make with people. Try not focusing so much on the past or alliances that former friends have made with others you know. Let them do their own thing and you do yours. Make it a mission to find new friends and before you know it you will be making lasting memories with them. Insha'Allah.
	Posted Jun 30th, 2009 at 12:37 AM by Munni

	I agree you are feeling low already so no need to torture yourself by thinking about past relation, won't do you any good. Can you wait for a year or so, i'll be moving to Melbourne then so maybe we'll hook up
	Posted Jun 30th, 2009 at 12:48 AM by Masi Museebtay

	thanks munni ur so right haha sure masi... would love to. Where are u moving from? Would love to hook up u know, two of my really good friends i met online.. well one online, and the other through that friend. We're hoping to catch up next month, Inshallah... thrilled.
	Posted Jun 30th, 2009 at 01:29 AM by sadzzz

	I am in Bahrain, hubby has a job here..the only attraction for me so far is my family there otherwise I like to stay close to Pak. I had one good online friend, infact met him on gupshup, but we both changed countries and hardly in touch now.
	Posted Jun 30th, 2009 at 01:58 AM by Masi Museebtay

	well i look forward to meeting you when you come here were u always in melbourne?
	Posted Jun 30th, 2009 at 02:34 AM by sadzzz

	Me too =) And nope, family settled there few years back and I've been there just once, last year.
	Posted Jun 30th, 2009 at 02:54 AM by Masi Museebtay

aww, just look out for opportunieites to meet new people. Do you have a local masjid, etc near you, that's a good place to meet people. I think you work so it's hard to go as often. Also ever considered joining a club or hobby sort of thing, maybe even the gym...etc...you meet tons of people there. How about your daughter's daycare, I have met a few ladies at my son's childcare and it's nice to know a little about parents of kids my son goes to school with & possible future play dates...etc..

Posted Jun 30th, 2009 at 09:09 AM by Afro-Sheen Afro-Sheen is offline

	i know what you mean sadzzz. it's hard to find good friends, and hubby or no hubby, sometimes it's just good to have a girlfriend you can talk to about whatever
	Posted Jun 30th, 2009 at 10:36 AM by smilestar

Aww! *hugs* You know, I go through the exact same sentiments every other month or so. I miss having friends. I had tons when I was in Toronto. When I moved to Melbourne, it got really lonely. The only friends we hung out were Asim's. Thankfully one was married, so there was at least one other girl, and we got along well. Later we became friends with Shaheen and Umer, so that was nice. Now in Edmonton, it's the same thing. I miss hanging out with friends, or even just chatting. I know people here, but I wouldn't call them "friends". It's just not the same.

Posted Jun 30th, 2009 at 02:04 PM by SeaBee SeaBee is offline

	i know.. dont u just hate it when they all gang up on u and they make up a reason to do that andactually justify it?.. buthn u knowi just think ah well who needs them anywayzz..i get busy in my own stuff..i make my own self entertained..
	Posted Jul 1st, 2009 at 04:42 PM by soni27

Hey... well ur entree struck a chord really... i do feel exactly like you sumtime... but I can't let these things drag me down for long.. got two lil angels mash'Allah... but u r right.. i definitely miss adult conversation.. atleast you work!! ... imagine waiting the whole day for hubby to come back and get to listen to something meaning ful for a change... sigh.. can't complain though.. well if you need a friend you can always buzz me.. m not really THAT far from you.. I am in Sydney :-) .. I'll try to find you in facebook.. and maybe we could catch up sumtime? what do u think? cheer up girl... you are not alone... :-)

Posted Jul 6th, 2009 at 01:09 AM by Aleezay Aleezay is offline