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      I hear prostitutes in the Pindi area charge 3500 rupees. And in Lahore you can get a prostitute from Hera mandi less then 1000 rupees. Sometimes you can in Lahore get a prostitute for 300 rupees (bargain) at one point I felt very sorry for the prostitutes in Pakistan. It made be sad when I found out what happened to one young prostitutes she was only 15 and her mom was forcing her to have sex with grown men and stuff like that and one of the man killed her.

      When I heard that I was really very interested in prostitutes, I was trying to find out why they do it, so then I would get prostitutes every-night and just talk to them and I would give them extra money so they would not resort to selling their bodies.

      I felt so sorry for them, and I started making a close bond with them, they started trusting me, I would go to their homes and stuff. I was not having sex with them or anything like that, I was trying to help them by giving them money and stuff.

      So I would ask them why they do it, and most of the time, they would say for money to feed their family, I would feel really sorry for those girls.

      At one point, I asked one of them how much money they make, and this one girl she pulled all her money out she made the night before, I was shocked she had more money then me.

      And then a week later she was arrested by the police, in Jalum and she called me and she was so frightened and the police would not let her out. So I told my granddad and he was like: "(what? you want to get a prostitute out of jail? why? if anyone hears this in the village they will curse us all but I'll see what I can do)"

      So I kept pestering my granddad for the day and then he got his driver and a police major from Islamabad and we went to jalum and got her out, we had to pay them 100 and 50 thousand rupees.

      This prostitute thanked me so much, I was feeling very, very sorry for her. So I sold a car that I bought just for cruising around and I sold it for 17 lak and I gave all the money to her. And, then I came back from Pakistan, and she promised to call me and not to do prostitution anymore. And every week (Sunday) she calls me or I call her, she is doing very good now, I send her money so she can do a English course in collage. And next year I am going to go see her, she wants to get married and have kids and have normal life.

      And I think everyone should do this, if you have rich family then you should call a prostitute to you home, you can trust and help her to reform her life, think of it as if this was your sister, these women have no option. We should help them!
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      Interesting.. I hope she does find someone who's willing to marry her and she can have a "normal" life.. i have sympathy for lots of these women, they're forced into it, they often start whent hey're very young grlz.. there's no other way of life for em..
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      I dont know if i feel any sympathy for them.

      If every single poor person in pakistan started to do prostitution i swear we will have the biggest STDs rates.

      I believe when they are tired of life and they dont know how to get things going in their lives they turn to this prostitution. For someone who gives up in life and sits there and goes " mujhee nahe pata tha mein aur kia karon" - i dont feel sympathy for them.

      I know they dont do this to be happy. A woman's dream is to be loved by one man madly, have a house, have kids and a happy family. Every woman wants that some where inside them- most of the time they dont even bother mentioning it.

      I don't get it how people can sleep with someone with no feelings?

      anywayz... hawas is a horrible thing ... disgusting...
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      Quote Originally Posted by nia_khan
      I dont know if i feel any sympathy for them.

      If every single poor person in pakistan started to do prostitution i swear we will have the biggest STDs rates.

      I believe when they are tired of life and they dont know how to get things going in their lives they turn to this prostitution. For someone who gives up in life and sits there and goes " mujhee nahe pata tha mein aur kia karon" - i dont feel sympathy for them.

      I know they dont do this to be happy. A woman's dream is to be loved by one man madly, have a house, have kids and a happy family. Every woman wants that some where inside them- most of the time they dont even bother mentioning it.

      I don't get it how people can sleep with someone with no feelings?



      anywayz... hawas is a horrible thing ... disgusting...
      You have less to no compassion. What is a women supposed to do in a nation dominated by men? I know if a girl looks act a guy its practically end of her life, she will get called all sorts of names and will be shunned by the community. I mean it takes two to tango. And women have feelings too.


      Also you mention about how guys can sleep with women who have no feelings for them - I actually few years ago written a thesis on prostitution, for a university paper, and I had to do research into all aspects. And the evidence would suggest that, usually the guy likes it when he sleeps with a prostitute he knows this women has no feelings for him, but he thinks he can make her love him. And the girl puts an act on 99% of the time and also pretends she loves him. But the best way to know if she really loves you or not after you've been having sex with her for so long and she tells you she loves you is when you doesn't charge you to have sex with her.

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      Quote Originally Posted by Sara516
      Interesting.. I hope she does find someone who's willing to marry her and she can have a "normal" life.. i have sympathy for lots of these women, they're forced into it, they often start whent hey're very young grlz.. there's no other way of life for em..
      Am going to try and find someone for her, she did have a medical check up and everything came clean because I demanded she went for a check up and then send me the report. But lucky for her everything came clean.

      Anyone would marry her shes very pretty, but the issue is her background. And people draw up on the negatives. But if really I can't find anyone for her I'll marry her myself.

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      ^ Why dont u just marry her urself, instead of as a last resort?
      The grass ain't always greener on the other side, it's green where you water it.

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      Quote Originally Posted by Sara516
      ^ Why dont u just marry her urself, instead of as a last resort?
      Perhaps, however my mom is opposed to it. She doesn't approve of me sending money to her or anything. And if I said I want to marry her she would surly flip and probably disown me. My dad on the other hand is pretty cool about it, he said to me a few times do you want to marry her and is pretty proud of me he wasn't at first though but when I explained the issues to him he was really cool about it, but I can't talk to my mom about issues like that. Some of my relatives (girls) hate my guts, they say really pretty mean racist and stupid things.
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      be careful with HIV...its very common in Lahore these days..medical tests can sometimes be wrong you know...

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      Quote Originally Posted by Stomp
      Am going to try and find someone for her, she did have a medical check up and everything came clean because I demanded she went for a check up and then send me the report. But lucky for her everything came clean.

      Anyone would marry her shes very pretty, but the issue is her background. And people draw up on the negatives. But if really I can't find anyone for her I'll marry her myself.
      wow you are pretty generous...never really met a man like that...about that prostitution stuff...there are many other things they(girls) can do other than selling their body and making money...i know that it would take a lot more time to make all the money needed..but if everyone thought like that this world would be full of those kinda people..and diseases ofcourse.
      [Everything looks so perfect from far away..*]

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      I remember going to a nigt club in dubai and seeing all these gorgeous russians prostitutes there...I thought about doing the same,may be helping one of them to get clean and then marry them...but it was only a thought...one or 2 of them were so beautiful...I mean better looking than Aishhwara raaye that I could'nt help but think that way.

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      The book taboo addressed the question of why prostitution happens in heera mandi.

      Whilst avoiding poverty was one of the reasons, a lot of women are in it for the pride of continuing the tradition of their ancestors. Meaning they do it becuase it's the way their mother lived, their grandmothers lives, their great-grandmother.. etc. They see themselves as the inheritors of a tradition that they are keeping alive.

      Oh, and various Pakistani government over the years have tried to crack down. But every effort focuses on the whores supplying the service, rather than the men demanding the service. Crackdowns in the past simply caused the "industry" to go underground, rather than diminishing it in any way.

      One of the consequences of Zia's crackdown was that men found it harder to go to Pakistani prostitutes, and so mafia imported Bangladeshi girls with the prospect of jobs as maids and forced them into prostitution slavery in pakistan instead.
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      Quote Originally Posted by desidudecool
      I remember going to a nigt club in dubai and seeing all these gorgeous russians prostitutes there...I thought about doing the same,may be helping one of them to get clean and then marry them...but it was only a thought...one or 2 of them were so beautiful...I mean better looking than Aishhwara raaye that I could'nt help but think that way.
      ^ you think Ashhwarya rai is beautiful :yukh:
      [Everything looks so perfect from far away..*]

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      Quote Originally Posted by diya17
      ^ you think Ashhwarya rai is beautiful :yukh:
      you think you are more beautiful than her?

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      most of the prostitutes r not their to earn money or cuz their conditions force them....
      they r in it for easy money and to earn a luxurious life....

      some of them r needy, most r just greedy for money....
      Both Halal & Haram r evident but between them r doubtful things, most ppl have no knowledge about them. So whoever saves himself from suspicious things saves his religion & honor, & whoever indulges in suspicious things indulges in Haram.

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      I'm sorry.. but it sounds a bit like a tall tale, but if it is really true, then you are a very compassionate and generous person and I'm sure God will reward your good deeds.

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      Quote Originally Posted by Stomp
      You have less to no compassion. What is a women supposed to do in a nation dominated by men?
      get up and raise their freakin voice fight. I am gald women are raising voice. Its abouttime.

      I know if a girl looks act a guy its practically end of her life, she will get called all sorts of names and will be shunned by the community. I mean it takes two to tango. And women have feelings too.
      REALLY!
      i didnt know that. I am so sick and tired of the fact people feelign sorry for women. Just because we are not as strong as you men physically that does not mean we are not strong. Stop feeling sorry for us.
      These women need to stand up and say no to things on their own they need to learn to fight on their own. One can play a psychological role in their life. But i have no sympathy for them at all.

      Also you mention about how guys can sleep with women who have no feelings for them - I actually few years ago written a thesis on prostitution, for a university paper, and I had to do research into all aspects. And the evidence would suggest that, usually the guy likes it when he sleeps with a prostitute he knows this women has no feelings for him, but he thinks he can make her love him. And the girl puts an act on 99% of the time and also pretends she loves him. But the best way to know if she really loves you or not after you've been having sex with her for so long and she tells you she loves you is when you doesn't charge you to have sex with her.
      No offense but i feel you are a one heck of a exceptional case my friend!

      I wnat to smack the crap out of those women who know their husbands go around and sleep with other women. OH man there are so many homes where women know their husbands are fooling around behind their back but they live all their lives with them. Unfortonately our culture has taught us to listen to the husband - never raise voice and all that crap.

      ek aurat hi aurat ki dushman hai. NO one can stop these things unless they do it on their own. I can guarantee you one thing - if that woman you helped doesnt find someone whom she can marry you know what she will do. Go back to where she felt safe and secured. Its sad pathetic and it hurts. What part of that yo dont understand?

      These relationships break homes! YOu are killing a relationship of a husband and wife, then father and kids and all of those relations losing trust in you. WHY? us women do get to be blamed the reason of SIN.

      I happen to come across sad cases and its pathetic- meet this woman few months back. Cried for hours i listened to her. "my husband and i been married for 20 plus years. i just came from paksitan he was here all by himself. before i got here he told me he has someone else who lives iwth him in america. I came here to be with him plus my kids wanted to be with their father."
      You what she goes through. she lives in the same house as her hsuband who sleeps and have fun with another woman in next room. She asked me what can i do for her.
      I gave her 0 dollars. i asked what she wanted to do? she went she has no clue i gave her few options.
      Shall i call a police?
      Shall i call social serivces?
      Do you want to get help from Muslim community?

      she didnt really ask for money btu she was asking for other help. I simply said NO. I would rather give money away to someoen who is orphan, disabled. You are not "lachaar" you want people to feel sorry for you and i am not giong to do that.


      you know what i want to do with men like those - have their wives do somethign really bad to them. chop of private parts, may be a finger here and there etc.

      I am surprise you sat there and wrote about prostitution. There are tons of other cases in Paksitan that needed your attention.

      Kids getting rapped
      Mullah's asking parents to give their kids "Allah ki rah mein" - astagfirullah
      gang rape of women
      issues of drug
      Earthquake -how can you possibly forget that

      It hurts to see intellligent people wasting their lives and government isnt doing much. You Idiots morons instead of arresting those women. WHY DONT THEY ARREST THOSE MEN? how come no one reveals their names? Why dotn they get busted? You cannot hide things like these and woman knows when her husband acts werid with her?

      i am sick and tired of this crap!
      Life became all Gray! But NOW i have decided to paint it all over again.

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      ^^^ well said
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      Stomp, I think you have got your message across about your concerns with Pakistani prostitution culture. So please don't keep on posting all the time about this topic in various thread