how to look like girl...

fk1437 · Jul 29th, 2007, 05:15 PM

i have a strange problemooo that i need help in...

i need to look like a girl... not like i don i have long hair boobs etc but i don like a girl in terms of a girl i am more tomboyish in ma appraoch in ma dressing... i am healthy... i don carry a purse dpn do make up... i work in IT on the networking side so i have always been happy with ma routers n switches n servers i have not had a relationship but yeh this ma first n sumhow ma guy does find me girly i dunno he has neva said nything but today wen he said i need to try n look beauifil cuz he feels i am but i don do nything to look gud... um can ny of u help on this...

i actaully do n have a lot of patience the only thing really take care of is ma hair n i have lovely ones mashAllah but other than that ummm not that too great... ny tips online offline i am open to all please assist... sumone...

tweety_pie · Jul 29th, 2007, 05:23 PM

hmm im not sure, well u dont always need alot of make up to look girly or indeed any make up at all. Glad 2 hear u take care of ure hair, may be getting the latest hair cut and a bit of colouring 4 ure haie myt help u a bit, it really makes a difference.
Apart 4rm that im not sure how u carry ureself but try be a bit more feminie with carrying ureself, like i dunno whn u get outta of teh car dont jump out , get out the care gracefully

im not bein sarcastic, i dunno jus tryin 2 give examples cos i havent seen u or dont knw so i dnt really jnw wht aspects to give u advice on

Erm wht else, as far as ure dress sense goes try to be up to date with the fashion though staying with wht u feel comfortable wearing, try and wear bright colours rather than dull ones, like lots of pinks, purples etc.

As far as make up goes i dont knw if u wear any but mayb wear a hint of blusher, and kajal if u must, but try using a mascara instead of kajal it give u lovely long eyelashes which are of course very girls

Guppies any1 got anything to add 2 wht ive jus said????

fk1437 · Jul 29th, 2007, 05:26 PM

umm i did get them higlighted n ma hair are always uptodate but other than its ma jeans n kurtas make wud be ma brown liner with sum filling i am wheathish dresssing wat else u i dunno

shud like go see a consultant i dunno sounds weird but i dunno wat to do n ya all ma friends are guys n nnn nothin...

tweety_pie · Jul 29th, 2007, 05:36 PM

no u dnt need to go c a consultant thr is nuthin worng with u medically, i dunno mayb go c a stylist /beutician, they cud give u specific tips, end of the day u r probably fine exactly the way u r, and ure boyfriend shud accept u that way

pink_diamond_ · Jul 29th, 2007, 05:45 PM

umm..this might sound silly...but if you dont, then get ur eye brows threaded..shud make a positive difference to ur appearance.

tweety_pie · Jul 29th, 2007, 06:06 PM

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Originally Posted by pink_diamond_

umm..this might sound silly...but if you dont, then get ur eye brows threaded..shud make a positive difference to ur appearance.

yup that also makes a huge difference

Khumar · Jul 29th, 2007, 06:33 PM

ok first of all...find your own style. if you are not comfortable with the uber-girly girl style that is out there, its ok. you don't have to wear mini skirts and stilletos and have perfectly curled hair and have nail polish and you know all that stuff.

ok the eyebrow thingy...i would recommend. get some shape in em.

then, look at your wardrobe. get tshirts...but not T shaped ones, the nice girl ones. buy nice jeans...boot cut or slight flared ones. these days even the dress shirts are gorgeous. nice cuts to them, really nice kapra they are made of, and the sleeves.

get a lipgloss, an eyeliner. that should be sufficient. you said your hair's usually the latest cut and stuff, well now just flaunt it.

buy shoes you're comfortable with. don't have to be high heels. even some flats can be very girly in style.

fghd · Jul 29th, 2007, 08:01 PM

^ hayee khummiiiiiiii y dont u bcome a fashion designer

Khumar · Jul 29th, 2007, 08:11 PM

who's gonna buy my kapray

Mograkali · Jul 30th, 2007, 02:02 PM

Ok, please dont take this too badly, but try and clean up the way you write whatever language you are communicating in. Ghetto english or Texting english.... does not a lady make!

Sometimes something as simple as speaking well and naturally makes a huge difference in how people percieve your outer self.

As for the physical self.. doing eyebrows and a dash of lipgloss and mascara makes a huge difference to the face.

Good luck with the transformation. Enjoy the process... I love being girly sometimes!

tweety_pie · Jul 30th, 2007, 05:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Mograkali

Ok, please dont take this too badly, but try and clean up the way you write whatever language you are communicating in. Ghetto english or Texting english.... does not a lady make!

Sometimes something as simple as speaking well and naturally makes a huge difference in how people percieve your outer self.

As for the physical self.. doing eyebrows and a dash of lipgloss and mascara makes a huge difference to the face.

Good luck with the transformation. Enjoy the process... I love being girly sometimes!

me 2

saimanyc · Jul 31st, 2007, 01:00 AM

I suggest good grooming is the first most important thing in appearing more feminine. Get a facial or do deep skin cleansing. Use a good moisturizer, get your eyebrows threaded, remove other excess hair. Have hair nicely layered and styled. Clean neat nails and feet. Use exfoliation and lotion on your skin. Wear simple, well cut clothes that follow your natural curves. Nothing too tight or too baggy.

For makeup, don't overdo it. If you start with healthy, clear skin you don't need much. Just a little cheek color and lipgloss. I believe less is more. Femininity is not what you put on yourself. Just be comfortable with who you are and your confidence will shine through.

aniiisa · Jul 31st, 2007, 07:17 AM

good luck

lifeless · Jul 31st, 2007, 12:29 PM

i agree with khumar about finding ur OWN style :goooodluck:

and it wont happen over night, start small and as u go along ull learn urself, for example, how to apply make-up on better, day by day.

redroses · Jul 31st, 2007, 02:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Khumar

who's gonna buy my kapray

i'll buy them only if they dont cost more than a $

Mamaof3 · Jul 31st, 2007, 02:21 PM

A couple of things to try...first, always wear lip gloss. You dont have to get fancy or anything, just a bit of shine on your lips. Highlight your cheekbones with blusher. Curl your eyelashes. You really dont need to do more than that for a day-to-day type of look.

And something I learned in my many years of ballet class. Pretend that theres a string attached to the top of your head and its pulling you up up up. This will make you sit straighter and walk with elegance. This does wonders - can make heavy gals look so much slimmer, make awkward gals look like butterflies!

I've had jobs that required comfy clothes too...but you can always "girly them up" a bit. If you wear jeans, try sewing lace or jewels down the seams. Flare legs are a wonder. Wear tops that are loose and comfy but also attractive.

Good luck, would SO love to see some before and after photos

tweety_pie · Jul 31st, 2007, 06:44 PM

good luck!! and let us knw how u get on

canpaki · Jul 31st, 2007, 07:03 PM

heheh aaaw...u need to proly get a new wardrobe....get a nice hair cur that suits ur facee....and wear halka halka sa make-up....

m sure theres more to being a girllli jus gtg right now tho..

tweety_pie · Jul 31st, 2007, 07:53 PM

oh ho kidr jaan hai canpaki?

Sahar02 · Jul 31st, 2007, 08:36 PM

I've been thinking a lot about this lately -- about what makes one beautiful and feminine. And I do think it has a lot to do with smooth, clean, and graceful long lines. So whether it's making sure your contours are slender and elegant, your skin is smooth and moisturized, your eye-lashes in pretty curls, your eyebrows smooth and defining the contours of your face, your hair smooth and straight, in soft waves, or delicate curls -- nice lines and curves that are aesthetically pleasing to the eye are marks of femininity. It's less about make up and jewelry, but about developing and accentuating these elegant and graceful aspects of yourself.