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      husband and wife with same career can they live a happy life???

      would their relationship be without competition, arguments, fights, misunderstandings etc or ????


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      Depends entirely on what profession they are in. If they are both in medicine they will get along just fine.
      If God-forbid on the other hand, they are both lawyers then their relationship will be nothing but competition, arguments, fights, misunderstandings etc.

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      Originally posted by Ahmed:
      ...If God-forbid on the other hand, they are both lawyers then their relationship will be nothing but competition, arguments, fights, misunderstandings etc.

      [This message has been edited by Ahmed (edited June 22, 2001).]
      One defense and one prosecuting lawyer?
      We are not in same line but hi-tech. still. Wife does not talk shop... says it's after 5:00 pm and I have left office...I want to unload but she is not interested.... So, there's still the argument, fight, misundersatnding. No competition...

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      I have seen couples in the same career have issues and not have issues. I have seen doctors who have a tension because one the exams cleared while the other one flunks etc. I guess later on it may be a smoother sailing but the years where you are finding a place can be tough and its natural in some instances. UIts how the competitive spirit is coupled with support for one another and being happy for one another's success that is a sign of maturity.

      babez and I both had our careers dot comed in 1999. and it was interesting to share our war stories but we never had a competition.
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      Mental Understanding is major thing...baqi cheesain tu buss....
      wasay if both from same field tu i think aacha hoota ho ga... caz ayk doosray say problems discuss keya ja suktay ho gay ...aur iss thuraha faltoo ki luraaii nahi hooti ho gi...

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      Originally posted by Fraudz:
      I have seen doctors who have a tension because one the exams cleared while the other one flunks etc.
      tension!!?? why? I fine the idea very exciting!!

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      no way .. its very rare that they can live happily...
      Have seen same occupation couples even after coming home talk and discuss tensions and job related problems.. better thatbthey even dont know any thing bout what their spouse do in office.. if they r doctors they be discussing patients and medicines all day..if computer related work would be discussing comp prog all eve. lost in loops...... likewise all occupation render same result...
      so home should be home and not a continuation of office.. ghar par aur achi achi baten karni chaheyen
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      I think it really depends on the individuals concerned. My stepmum and dad are both barristers and they have a good professional and personal relationship. However we know another lawyer couple, recently divorced due to work clashes.

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      Originally posted by nia_khan:
      husband and wife with same career can they live a happy life???

      would their relationship be without competition, arguments, fights, misunderstandings etc or ????


      i will talk later
      Very very serious topic,...have to ask the Maulvi Sahib in my area....

      BTW,..you have started a very important topic.I commend you for this,....have friends who are married with same career,....very happy,...according to them,.....its good and very helpful,...My parents have same profession(doctors), they never had any problem,...but on the contrary,.I have seen them helping eachother.
      In my case,..I have different views,...but,..it depends upon each individual situation,..May be I am wrong,...But always open mind to learn ...

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      In most of the cases it's no problem, if husband and wife work in the same field. Sometimes it can be very good for both of them.
      However if they even work in the same company/office/shop, it's not so easy. If you don't see each other during working time, you'll be happier to meet in the evening after work. But if you see each other all day long, every day and then in the evening again, it'll be difficult to differenciate between work and private life. And I have seen in a few cases, that this causes trouble.

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      fraudia uncle... good .. but tell me honestly wasnt there ever a time where u wanted to do something and she got it.. i mean may be some kind of project or whatever...and u got jealous or she got jealous...


      amjad.... kuan se dunya me rehte ho... problems....and discussion ... pata hai ke nahee mostly larke un ko to apne ego ke parhe hote hai wo kia discuss kare ge..

      who me..........i am praying... Allah help u on your thinking http://www3.pak.org/gupshup/smilies/hehe.gif laraye karwa ke he dam lo ge ap to lol

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      Tariq thanks .... every individual is different... but gettin jealous and mad at each other..isnt that is kind of normal....

      umer...so u r saying staying away from each other..would bring them closer.. hmm interesting...

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      my view.... hmmm
      well if they both have same profession, they wont be able to guide their kids about other things that go, on this planet. Having a same career would bring issues of office environment and might create disagreements between them. If it would continue on, there is a chance of love might be fading away.

      indeed understanding is the main issue here..but for how long one would be willing to do it??
      Isnt there more towards life then just discuss about job stuff at home??
      If wife gets a head of her husband doesnt that hurt his ego?
      Life became all Gray! But NOW i have decided to paint it all over again.

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      Originally posted by nia_khan:

      Degas lagta hai botal abhe bhe hath me hain
      .... zara apna answer dekho aur upar mere views.. hahah lagta he achi nakal mar leti ho... http://www3.pak.org/gupshup/smilies/hehe.gif

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      Originally posted by Degas:
      .... zara apna answer dekho aur upar mere views.. hahah lagta he achi nakal mar leti ho... http://www3.pak.org/gupshup/smilies/hehe.gif


      wese zara nashe se bahir a ke to deko.. to shayd pata chale...


      Life became all Gray! But NOW i have decided to paint it all over again.

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      Originally posted by nia_khan:

      wese zara nashe se bahir a ke to deko.. to shayd pata chale...


      ... wese nashe men a ke dekho.. ya kisi aur se pooch kar dekh lo ..

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      Originally posted by Degas:

      ... wese nashe men a ke dekho.. ya kisi aur se pooch kar dekh lo ..

      ufo this is serious thread... chalo cafe me ja ke yeh sawal poocho...

      ok guys...answer my question now
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      I'd love to have a wife in the same profession as myself, that'd be so cool.

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      Originally posted by Pilot25:
      I'd love to have a wife in the same profession as myself, that'd be so cool.
      Right on!!...... I dunno why people are having difficulty with it. Its a very exciting thought.

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