torquisepari

HI,
a friend of mine gt pregnant 6 months back but she lost her pregnancy after two months doctors said it happensdue to stress n tension but my friend tells me she wasnt tensed .a quuestion keeps on appearing in my mind why it hapens? if someone nos plz tell me in detail as i m also want to ve a baby , i jus need an information about this thing.

wannabe_a_mum

Nobody knows the answer to this question - trust me, I've suffered several and still waiting for the answer.

I would really advise to stop stressing about the possibility of it happening - you are just creating tension for yourself, and pray that Allah SWT grants you an easy pregnancy and a healthy child

Niksik

There are many different reasons why one can have a miscarriage. Usually when it happens in the first trimester, it is because the fetal development and/or attachment was not proper to begin with. There are other reasons as well, which could range from hormonal to inadequate nutrition.

Don't worry about getting pregnant. See your primary care physician, tell her/him that you are planning to get pregnant, start a pre natal supplement program, and take it easy.

torquisepari

thanks niksik i ll def..follow ur advice....

Mang0tang0

1st trimester abortions are most commonly due to chromosome abnormalities, and there is nothing that can be done about it.if if happens more then 2 or 3 times in a row then you doc will do some tests to find out the reason why.

Mamaof3

I had two known "missed abortions". The first one we are sure that it was due to a chromosomal abnormality - a "bad egg" that just couldnt develop. We had the tissues tested so that we'd know for sure what happened. Actually, if your friend had her miscarriage in a hospital, they save the tissues usually for a year or more so she could have them tested too. I think my second one was the same thing but we didnt do the testing. Its the most common cause of 1st trimester miscarriage, sometimes it happens even before you know you were pregnant. I think I had one or two really early miscarriages also - I had inadequate lining so fertilized eggs didnt have a place to plant themselves.

I think she needs a better doc. Its very rare to have a miscarriage due to "stress". If stress caused miscarriage, we wouldnt have a population problem. Same with nutrition. While proper nutrition is very important to a properly developing fetus, poor nutrition rarely causes miscarriage esp in the 1st trimester.

Anyway, dont worry. Take prenatal vitamins, live a healthy lifestyle and visit your doc. Inshallah, all will be fine.