My wife is 3 years and 4 months older than me

**Dracula1980** · Apr 10th, 2006, 03:44 PM

Its 2nd month after my marriage, now i am in difficult times, my problem is that my wife is 3 years and 4 months older than me everytime i be with her on the bed i feel shame to say something to her meri baat samagh rahe ho na.

What should i do in this sistuation i am in serious problem.

**danial** · Apr 10th, 2006, 03:53 PM

just relax dude, and try to understand her. you are married now and she is not gonna bite your head off

cause she is older then you.

try to get to know her, not her age. hope you have a wonderful life, and congratz on your wedding.

**Sara516** · Apr 10th, 2006, 03:54 PM

Why does her age play any factor in it?

Was it an arranged marriage? You don't feel comfortable with her yet , n thats normal in most arranged situations (i think)..

**Barfee** · Apr 10th, 2006, 04:54 PM

wait why do you feel ashamed? :-s

**Sheraz CT** · Apr 10th, 2006, 05:37 PM

yeh so why do u? say what? man you dont make sense

**Unreal** · Apr 10th, 2006, 06:02 PM

this reminds of my cousin, hehe his wife is only 1 day older than him... he is very scared of her... its sooo funny when i see them arguing,

**Orpheus** · Apr 10th, 2006, 06:42 PM

Dracula,

Don't take this the wrong way, what happens within the confines of your household between yourself and your wife is a private matter and should always remain so, it's one of the rights/obligations your wife expects from you as her husband and you of her as your wife.

i understand sometimes when we are searching for a reason or be it someone to talk to, members here feel they have no other place but to discuss their private matters here on GS, which i have always found disturbing to some extent.

I'll end my two cents worth there, i hope you read this and understand what i am trying to say.

**sonia123** · Apr 10th, 2006, 06:47 PM

^ agree

**hsap** · Apr 10th, 2006, 07:08 PM

U knew that she's older than u before getting married ? than y didn't u give a da** about it ? it's late dude

**Diva4U** · Apr 10th, 2006, 07:37 PM

I think this is a joke !

**faizy** · Apr 10th, 2006, 08:46 PM

^^ i dunno man .. guy has name dracula... and..

hmmmm..

**Rush** · Apr 11th, 2006, 02:17 AM

[FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]Sexual disorder and abnormal behavior - Check with your local psychologist at your earliest.
[/SIZE][/FONT]

**desidudecool** · Apr 11th, 2006, 02:48 AM

I wonder why marriage is so important to people in this country.They rush into it and then find out oh there is lack of attraction and the kids are a nightmare and how will I support them.Always need to work those matters out before marriage.Physical attraction is very important in any relationship once that dies out ...you become sick of the other person..it does'nt have to die if you are truly in love..so think about that before you get married.

**WitchDr** · Apr 11th, 2006, 05:28 AM

Originally Posted by desidudecool

....... kids are a nightmare and ....

This sounds like a typical Gora remark. How can the kids be nightmare?? I can't believe this remark.

For me, it is very disturbing to see people getting so much allergic to kid's naughtyness and mischiefs. You see plenty of people making faces in planes when you hear some kids or even babies crying. Everyone's own comfort is so important to them!! My God! So many stuffed up people. Another of the reasons, I like the Far East.

**Dracula1980** · Apr 11th, 2006, 06:24 AM

Originally Posted by hsap

U knew that she's older than u before getting married ? than y didn't u give a da** about it ? it's late dude

she concealed her age,she did not tell me right age and its my love marriage when she told this to me then this sistuation was developed.

**fghd** · Apr 11th, 2006, 06:34 AM

I soooooooooooooooooo wana laugh!!

but then I wont who knows I might end up gettin hubby who is also three yrs and 4 months older than me ...yikes!!! what a nightmare right!?

and dracula sahab, if it was a love marriage then what kind a LOVE it was that now her age is playin' a BIGGER factor here instead of her love? How long have u been together? ( I mean b4 marriage) If not too long then I would say it was a lil attraction between you guys NOT love!

Talk it out with her and tell her that you as a DESI MAN *again* ashamed of having a wife older than him...doesn't matter whether b4 you loved her or not! and if u really love her, I hope ull understand her

p.s. and how old r u Mr.?

**Barfee** · Apr 11th, 2006, 06:46 AM

I dont think its about her age, I think its more about the fact that she lied. God knows what else she lied about. Dump her.

**fghd** · Apr 11th, 2006, 06:55 AM

assumption assumptions assumptions! ok yea so what if she lied about her age to him BUT she also confronted with him!! You can't just talk about dumping someone who is now under your nikkah just b/c of one lie. If you r suspecting her more whether she lied about other stuff or not then talk it out with her. Try to give her at least one more chance.

LinkBack

Thread Tools

Display