This thread is more about chick fight, than male bashing or the topic of marriage.

hmm I don't see myself with anyone other then a pure Pakistani FOB. retty:

All the goras are surely attractive but when it comes down to living with someone and raising a child. Sorry they are not the cake i would like to take bite of.

Mere liye ghar ki murghi murghi ke barabar hai and bahir ki daal daaal hi hai

Ofcourse i would want him to have a good sense of Pakistani culture and here as well. Someone who has a balance in his life knows how to respect parents and entire khandan.

You can get a Non Pakistani guy easily and marry him. But most of them knows to break the relationship the moment there are hardships. Very few stick around with their wives with ups and down.

Now other Mulims from other Countries. I am sorry i love my culture. For example you wont find this in other culture when father walks in the room girl gets up or fixes herself the way she is sitting.... etc

I know with a Pakistani guy i can inshallah raise good muslim and educated kids...I want them to know what our tehzeeb is. I dont want them to be confuse soul where they dont know where they belong

but for now single life zindabad

Yes I hate ALL MEN who think women are their jhooti. I always argue and will fight always with those type of men.

ABHAI YAAR, PHIRSE MERA POST DELETE KAR DIYA!

Well anyway! Getting to the topic, its not that pakistani men don't want to marry non pakistani women, its just that the non-pakistani women dont want to marry us...

Hi Kodiak....
recently a gentle men from pakistan porposed me.. he waiting my answer now..
so i think some pakistani guy also like to marry non pakaistani girls...
see in my case...now me do my research abt you all...
im sure everybody has a good potential to be a good hubby ..just ask ur self..

emm eemm should i say "yes" to him..emmmmmthinking.. now thinking again....emmm

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Originally Posted by Kodiak

Wtih the amount of male bashing going on in this forum by a population largly comprised of Pakistani women, I wonder why there arnt more Pakistani men marrying women of a nationality other than pakistani ?

You women are seriously giving second thoughts to any pakistani guys out there thinking about getting married :P Oh well, your loss.

Phelee baar , akal kee baat kee hey.


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Originally Posted by Afridi786

ABHAI YAAR, PHIRSE MERA POST DELETE KAR DIYA!

Well anyway! Getting to the topic, its not that pakistani men don't want to marry non pakistani women, its just that the non-pakistani women dont want to marry us...

When my uncle dated a gori from Buffalo of Italian/German heritage, his sisters and mother begged him not to marry her. It was the early 80's, era of solid gold, Abba and blow dried, feathered hairdos for men. I've heard that she popped the question in a round-about sort of way. They were having dinner with her parents and she said, "Oh, Mansoor asked me to marry him." Everyone was thrilled they congratulated them. Except that he hadn't asked her and he was taken aback. He just went along with it and I guess the idea stuck. They're still married to this day. Although they went through some pretty stormy times, they're still together and have two kids. She's not a traditional sort of mother. She's worked full time since the kids were little. She also doesn't really cook that much, especially not desi food. She had issues when his mother stayed with them. So cultural differences were apparent. But both made some compromises. It's hard to know what is going on from an outside perspective but I can't say it's a very happy marriage.

Originally Posted by nia_khan

hmm I don't see myself with anyone other then a pure Pakistani FOB. retty:

All the goras are surely attractive but when it comes down to living with someone and raising a child. Sorry they are not the cake i would like to take bite of.

Mere liye ghar ki murghi murghi ke barabar hai and bahir ki daal daaal hi hai

Ofcourse i would want him to have a good sense of Pakistani culture and here as well. Someone who has a balance in his life knows how to respect parents and entire khandan.

You can get a Non Pakistani guy easily and marry him. But most of them knows to break the relationship the moment there are hardships. Very few stick around with their wives with ups and down.

Now other Mulims from other Countries. I am sorry i love my culture. For example you wont find this in other culture when father walks in the room girl gets up or fixes herself the way she is sitting.... etc

I know with a Pakistani guy i can inshallah raise good muslim and educated kids...I want them to know what our tehzeeb is. I dont want them to be confuse soul where they dont know where they belong

but for now single life zindabad

Nia I love you

Originally Posted by saimanyc

When my uncle dated a gori from Buffalo of Italian/German heritage, his sisters and mother begged him not to marry her. It was the early 80's, era of solid gold, Abba and blow dried, feathered hairdos for men. I've heard that she popped the question in a round-about sort of way. They were having dinner with her parents and she said, "Oh, Mansoor asked me to marry him." Everyone was thrilled they congratulated them. Except that he hadn't asked her and he was taken aback. He just went along with it and I guess the idea stuck. They're still married to this day. Although they went through some pretty stormy times, they're still together and have two kids. She's not a traditional sort of mother. She's worked full time since the kids were little. She also doesn't really cook that much, especially not desi food. She had issues when his mother stayed with them. So cultural differences were apparent. But both made some compromises. It's hard to know what is going on from an outside perspective but I can't say it's a very happy marriage.

Oh are blow dried hair out of fashion? I need to get a new hairdo.

Originally Posted by ashtray

Oh are blow dried hair out of fashion? I need to get a new hairdo.

yeah as if you have hair.. nice try though

Originally Posted by Afridi786

ABHAI YAAR, PHIRSE MERA POST DELETE KAR DIYA!

Well anyway! Getting to the topic, its not that pakistani men don't want to marry non pakistani women, its just that the non-pakistani women dont want to marry us...

lol

of course we (non pakistani girls who will marry pakistani man) are rare, but that's tv fault: too much guys rioting in streets and burning american flags, or bombs in pakistan: makes a bad image..., so parents get frightened

Originally Posted by parissenoor

lol
of course we (non pakistani girls who will marry pakistani man) are rare, but that's tv fault: too much guys rioting in streets and burning american flags, or bombs in pakistan: makes a bad image..., so parents get frightened

OK, i can see why the parents get frightened..............but come on girls, u know u like all that rioting, flag burning, bombs an all that........:soldier:

a little of this
some of that:bash:
plenty of this
after all a that, we still come home and give u a lotta this

abey fittay mounh terey Kodiak. yahan pakistani ladki nahee miltey aur tuu non-pakistani ki batein karta hain..

^ kuch logo ki kismat kooti hi achi lagti hai -

yeh bomb ki baat shahih nahi hai parrisenoor.
maybe their scared of people who r actually willing to express their feelings about the injustices in this world and bring attention to it, instead of sitting back and hoping sum1 else will do it for them...i.e. the american way.

tell me about it man...i 'll mary one tomorrow if given the opportunity...infact am moving to london very shortly,i won't be looking for a pakistani girl there

Originally Posted by MYwish

Someone please tell all Pakistani men to go and get married to Non-Pakisatnis, so that we women have a valid excuse to marry other decent non-Pakistanis as well. That would be a blessing.