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      Why do men do this? I have noticed that it's mostly mid-aged men that betray their wifes more often than young ones. Do they loose interest on their wifes, who are mostly at home taking care of their childern and basically a good and caring house wife but still some men find this is not enough. Is it because the housewife has not developed mentally due to lack of professional life and men loose interest and seek someone with the same thoughts. Of course I am talking about the western society cos this is more common here.

      I noticed this at my workplace that some men have their "things" going with other females behind the backs of their wifes or are they only rumours. Well anyway.

      Are there other reasons?

      Please stay factual about this.

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      CUZ THEY ASK STUUUUPID QUESTIONS LIKE THAT!!!!



      [This message has been edited by double roti (edited December 14, 2001).]

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      Unfaithfulness has never been found to be sex related.Men & women are have different periods in which thery are most desirable ,therefore during those periods ,they have most oppertunity .Yet not everyone take advantage of those oppertunity for various principle & moral reasons both men & women.To say men are more immoral than women is not correct either.

      If there was any gene of unfaithfullness ,it cannot be only in Y chromosome or rather independent of gender chromosome.Most attractive girls are content with one man & many immoral unattractive girls are slut.Its question of character & not only oppertunity.Same is true of men.

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      the title is sexist. it imples only men do this.

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      True, both men and women can be unfaithful. And true, it happens more often than one might think. especially where it is socially easy to do so.

      Why? there could be many reasons. I think that more than hormones, it tends to be a cultural expectation. Right?

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      Originally posted by nomaan:
      the title is sexist. it imples only men do this.
      tut tut, I dont think so. If you guys find that females should not doing this or that, all of you contribute, I for once wanted to know why mostly men do something, yes its both sided but men tend to do it more often, its a fact, not many replied.


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      Originally posted by double roti:
      CUZ THEY ASK STUUUUPID QUESTIONS LIKE THAT!!!!

      [This message has been edited by double roti (edited December 14, 2001).]

      Well who asked another stupid question in a thread that is in the General section with topic "SADI's comments.......me no comprende", ??

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      well i think the reason is its all the way we have been made i guess god created us that
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      Define betrayal
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      Originally posted by SADI:

      Well who asked another stupid question in a thread that is in the General section with topic "SADI's comments.......me no comprende", ??
      lol, me thinks me be in love..... a saxaey, tanned goil, who can talk trash too!!!!
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      how would someone know in general why some men are unfaithful? we can hypothesize but none of us are experts and i believe none of us can speak from personal experience, so the lack of participation by men does'nt matter in this thread, everyone will be philosophizing or giving textbook answers.
      The greatest trick the devil ever pulled was convincing the world he did not exist. And like that... he is gone.

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      Originally posted by Fraudz:
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      how would someone know in general why some men are unfaithful? we can hypothesize but none of us are experts and i believe none of us can speak from personal experience, so the lack of participation by men does'nt matter in this thread, everyone will be philosophizing or giving textbook answers.
      Fraudz you have a point there. Thank God that pakistani men are not like some men I've seen here. So thread closed now.


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      We can blame it on vixens who give you the eye as you are taking the 6 train to work or the girl at work who can't but help wear that low cut top, the secretary in the leather skirt at the office christmas parties, the incessant barrage of flesh on tv and all around you. But what is in the mind of the married man is not necessarily what he ends up succumbing to.

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      Originally posted by SADI:
      Fraudz you have a point there. Thank God that pakistani men are not like some men I've seen here. So thread closed now.


      I just wanted to comment on that from what I experienced, which might have been a rare occassion, but nonetheless I experienced it. I used to work for a large company that had in my department, 80% pakistani men. There were not that many, and I was one of only two females, but I can tell you that the majority of guys working in my department participated in what some would deem excessive flirting, and they dated women whom were not their(outside of) girlfriends/fiancees and wives. I personally found it disgusting and even spoke against it in as friendly manner as possible when I got the chance, but majority didnt seem to care. Their response was, once we are actually married then we will not do this sort of thing. Lets hope so for their wives sake. I left that company because my boss who was an engaged pakistani, made several advances towards me.

      Just my experience, I dont believe majority of people are like that, these are just the few and far between, or so I hope.


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      i dont know, am not married yet....

      but i know many girls and if my wife thinks i betray her if i continue talking to these girls, i dont think i can help it....

      cuz i see them as friends....

      maybe my wife can keep me home with her but dont know what will happen....

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      Originally posted by armughal:
      i dont know, am not married yet....

      but i know many girls and if my wife thinks i betray her if i continue talking to these girls, i dont think i can help it....

      cuz i see them as friends....

      maybe my wife can keep me home with her but dont know what will happen....

      So are you going to allow your wife to have guys as friends? I mean husband and wife, each having friends of opposite sex, is bound to raise unnecessary suspicions.

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      I think your behaviour - and the acceptance of it by others depends upon your intentions and maturity.

      I don't see problems about having friends of the opposite sex - but I would never go to the movies with one of them like I would do with a girl friend. I don't have problems if my husband is friends with the girls in his office, I trust him to know where to draw the line.

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      [QUOTE]Originally posted by Munni:

      majority of guys working in my department participated in what some would deem excessive flirting, and they dated women whom were not their(outside of) girlfriends/fiancees and wives..... , but majority didnt seem to care. Their response was, once we are actually married then we will not do this sort of thing.


      the married guys said they would stop flirting after they got married? some factual inconsitency here http://www3.pak.org/gupshup/smilies/tongue.gif

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