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Jun 23rd, 2007, 07:59 PM
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you make lots of friends in ur life  everyone has different friendship criteria..especially when you are in ur teens.my question to u all is that lets say this guy/girl you really like BUT they are fat! Very fat would that stop you liking them?! People tend to care about what your body shape is these days.Are you one of those? 
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Jun 23rd, 2007, 08:17 PM
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nope...nt in case of me ...
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Jun 23rd, 2007, 08:28 PM
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nope.
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Jun 23rd, 2007, 08:46 PM
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are you trying to do some kinda poll here? i dont even get ur question...
ur either going to get a yes or no as an answer..in both cases it wouldnt/shldnt matter to u..
and on top of all of tht..i find the question highlyyyyy offensive
KuCh IsTaRah ..Teri PaLkiEN..mEri PalkON se miLaDeY..AnsooO TeRe sAREy MeRi PALkoN pE sAjAdEY
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Jun 23rd, 2007, 08:56 PM
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normally i've seen that if someone likes someone, they like them regardless of their weight. so weight is either a package or is ignorable in the whole crush bit.
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Jun 23rd, 2007, 11:03 PM
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Moderator Parenting, Shor Sharaba Forum
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Aaana
are you trying to do some kinda poll here? i dont even get ur question...
ur either going to get a yes or no as an answer..in both cases it wouldnt/shldnt matter to u..
and on top of all of tht..i find the question highlyyyyy offensive
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offensive in what sense haan  its a simple question thats would you be friends wid them or not ..cause when ever i go to a mall(in pakistan) i saw lots of people making fun of them..even ur relatives  anties usually say BEETA WAZAAN BOHAT HOO GAIYA HAI ..KIYA BANA GAH TUMARA....WHO WILL MARRY U.
btw why are u getting offended 
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Jun 23rd, 2007, 11:17 PM
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people are attracted to who they are attracted to, but I have to admit people do tend to go for people who aren't obese even the obese people. But having said that there are slim people who are attracted to large people but their numbers in the population are lower.
And I have noticed that since I have lost weight and hoping to lose more I tend to get more notice from the opposite sex and that scares me.. lol
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Jun 23rd, 2007, 11:23 PM
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i guess some may find the distinction in regard to their weight as offensive. really if you like someone what does their weight has to do with it? its friends we are talking about right, even attraction doesnt come into equation here.
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Jun 23rd, 2007, 11:40 PM
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Jun 23rd, 2007, 11:48 PM
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are u serious? why would you care how fat or anorexic that person is as long as they're sweet and know what friendship means unlike most people these days who are so fake and shady. i'd rather have a fat friend who holds friendship dear to him/her than having a anorexic or a friend with perfect body for that matter who's a prick and a fake
Verily my happiness is my iman,
and verily my iman is in my heart,
and verily my heart does not belong to anyone but Allah(swt).
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Jun 24th, 2007, 12:32 AM
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Friends are the family you choose for yourself...and just as in your real family ...do u stop being their relative if they r big/small/tall/short etc
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Jun 24th, 2007, 08:05 AM
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well i am engaged me and my fiance had the whole love thing my weight doesnt bothr him but even wiv friends u dont become friends witha person cos of their looks cos that is so shallow but u become friends with them because of their personailty i know of guys who have married girls who asre very overweight because they were friends before they started datin
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Jun 24th, 2007, 08:39 AM
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I have a couple of fat friends and i dont base my friendship on weight...what i will say however is that even within friends jokes are made about about their weight...
"Experience is Not Always the Kindest of Teachers but it is Surely the Best"
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Jun 24th, 2007, 09:43 AM
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hmmm, one of my friends after loosing all her extra kgs...said it like this:
"When you are fat, the only way you can get people to like you ot to be friends with you, is by being extra nice and thats so demanding....."
Id love my friends, regardless their size. Its their nature and heart,
thats most important. Another thing is, if I had to chose a guy...I like him to be a couple of extra kgs ( not obese or very heavy..dont gte me wrong) I find it so cute....lol Just to share.... ;-)
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Jun 24th, 2007, 11:08 AM
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My best friend in college was a fatty......she was nice and clever.
“God made woman beautiful and foolish; beautiful, that man might love her; and foolish, that she might love him”
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Jun 24th, 2007, 06:06 PM
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hmmm well i dont mind my close friends makin fun of it cos i am prefectly secure with in my self and i can handle myself but u know ppl are senstive so u should watch wat u say and this is the case in both fat ppl and also exteremely skinny ppl
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Jun 24th, 2007, 06:43 PM
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Every person should acccept the fatness in him/herself. That is the only way of enlightenment. *meditation wala icon*
There is no more pleasant food for the soul than the knowledge of truth. - Lactantius
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Jun 24th, 2007, 06:45 PM
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^road to improvement 
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Jun 24th, 2007, 06:46 PM
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/\ Ameen? 
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Jun 25th, 2007, 01:08 PM
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What the...
Why would anyone care about wieght? If they do then that is definately not real friendship, I mean friendship is about trust, fun and a shoulder to lean on, not about looking good and having friends who aren't fat.
I love all my friends to bits, and they come in different shapes and sizes, I would never change that for the world.
;) gotcha!
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