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Aug 21st, 2008, 12:21 PM
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anyone had this experience being hurt by people around you from your own country. these are the people who are your family here. but they take advantage of you..... is it true
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Aug 21st, 2008, 12:26 PM
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sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo ooo
true
By Al Asr, Verily (all) the humans are in a great loss except those who believe and undertake pious deeds, and encourage one another to the Truth and encourage one another to patience
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Aug 21st, 2008, 12:48 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by snik
anyone had this experience being hurt by people around you from your own country. these are the people who are your family here. but they take advantage of you..... is it true
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They will take advantage of you if you let them. If you already know that people can take advantage of you then you know that there is such a thing, right ?
Then how can you not avoid taken advantage of ?
If someone does not know what it is then yes there are many people out there who would love to ride that bus called taking advantage.
I am a man with a plan. A plan to live a simple , fulfilling life.
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Aug 21st, 2008, 12:59 PM
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yes,people would take advantage of you only as long as you let them to.
Success starts with beginning...
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Aug 21st, 2008, 04:13 PM
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but if you're in that phase when you are trying to make friends but the other party has some other plans.you cannot judge people by face.
here advantages are taken and not shown. when they r done using you they trash you out.
good people never know that they are being used , only chalaak people.
why is everyone so done with people around them, why is there only 2-5 families good enough to meet when there are 300 people in the town from your own community.
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Aug 21st, 2008, 04:26 PM
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^ good people realize that they are being used some point in their lives, and yes you do get hurt by those around, like a few other posters have said, only if you let them.
I think family, especially tend to use others (from wwhat i've experienced and seen) because they thnk it's okay...they 'share the same blood' na issi liay.  and they act like as if it's nothing but simple family love and what-not between them 
however, most people do work in a way that will be a positive impact to them, be it them usingtheir family. It doesn't matter to them. You just gotta stand firm and not let someone mess about with you I guess. =\
*BIg FAt Liar*
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Aug 21st, 2008, 05:33 PM
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Yes,people take advantage of you,and when its ur time they have lame excuses,or as if they are so innocent they don't know anything thing about your need.
Stay away from those kind of people,but............. the important thing is that ....
Do your best to everyone for the sake of Allah...........
Allah will reward you for those deeds.......
it is my own personal experience.
One life to live
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Aug 22nd, 2008, 07:29 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by snik
anyone had this experience being hurt by people around you from your own country. these are the people who are your family here. but they take advantage of you..... is it true
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Trust no one 
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Aug 22nd, 2008, 07:42 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by snik
anyone had this experience being hurt by people around you from your own country. these are the people who are your family here. but they take advantage of you..... is it true
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KAHEY HAI SUNN K MERI ZARGAZISHT WOH ZAALIM.....
YE KAUN ZIKR HAI, JAANE BHI DOU, HUA SO HUA
DIYA USSAY DIL O' DEIRR AAB YE JAAN HAI SAUDA....
PHIRR AAGAY DEKHEEAY...JO SO HO HUA...SO HUA
Jeevay Jeevay PAKISTAN
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