Feeling guilty

Heart Desire · Sep 10th, 2008, 08:49 AM

I have said something bad to someone because i was so angry at them and also i gave them a bud dua

now i didnt meant anything from heart it was just the reaction of what the y said to me

but now i feel guilty that i shouldnt have done that

i also prayed to god that i take my bud dua back but would that work

NaMaan · Sep 10th, 2008, 08:58 AM

I really hope that person must be reading this thread and KNOWS that its you. If not please go talk to him/her and ask for forgiveness. That is the only way out.

Plus you did some thing bad towards a human so u need his/her approval not God's. So only Duaz won't help.

Keep faith in Allah every thing will be fine

Heart Desire · Sep 10th, 2008, 09:02 AM

that person's not a member of Gs and there's no point of talking to her again because i know she will react and it won't be good

and it's not only my fault she said stuff to me which wasn't easy to take in and she started it first

Chameli420 · Sep 10th, 2008, 09:05 AM

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Originally Posted by Heart Desire

that person's not a member of Gs and there's no point of talking to her again because i know she will react and it won't be good

and it's not only my fault she said stuff to me which wasn't easy to take in and she started it first

with that attitude u r not really showing that u r regretting anything.

if u dont want to appologive face2face or call her, u can at least send her a text message and say that u r sorry and didnt mean it

remember that Allah is more merciful to those who show mercy so show mercy and have a good heart.

Heart Desire · Sep 10th, 2008, 09:08 AM

the thing is that she doesn't kno wthat i have given her a bud dua

so what shall i say to her

NaMaan · Sep 10th, 2008, 09:10 AM

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Originally Posted by Chameli420

with that attitude u r not really showing that u r regretting anything.

if u dont want to appologive face2face or call her, u can at least send her a text message and say that u r sorry and didnt mean it

remember that Allah is more merciful to those who show mercy so show mercy and have a good heart.

Loo jee ... I am agreeing with this post

If you are really sorry than don't show this attitude. Plus our approval won't work. You said some thing bad to her not to us.

Heart Desire · Sep 10th, 2008, 09:11 AM

whats harm in taking some advice

NaMaan · Sep 10th, 2008, 09:13 AM

Yea so only advice is to go and say sorry to her if you really care. If not than moojaan he moojaan

Your President · Sep 10th, 2008, 09:25 AM

Just move on...

Heart Desire · Sep 10th, 2008, 09:27 AM

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Originally Posted by NaMaan

Yea so only advice is to go and say sorry to her if you really care. If not than moojaan he moojaan

u dont know sorry kehne sey kia ho sakta hai

Heart Desire · Sep 10th, 2008, 09:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Your President

Just move on...

i would luv to but then again i feel guilty

NaMaan · Sep 10th, 2008, 09:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Heart Desire

u dont know sorry kehne sey kia ho sakta hai

Someone will die ?? nahi na ?? phir ??

I think she is just not important to u at all thats why

Your President · Sep 10th, 2008, 09:33 AM

Guilty? It'll pass..

Heart Desire · Sep 10th, 2008, 09:35 AM

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Originally Posted by NaMaan

Someone will die ?? nahi na ?? phir ??

I think she is just not important to u at all thats why

i guess if it wasn't for her then i wouldn't have opened this thread either

Heart Desire · Sep 10th, 2008, 09:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Your President

Guilty? It'll pass..

with me it stays forever

Mirch · Sep 10th, 2008, 09:39 AM

You said bad thing to her , apologize to her. You said a bud duaa , it is between you and Allah and you have already told Allah that you did not mean that bud duaa and you took it back. Allah will shower you and her with his mercy. Inshallah. Ameen. So you do not have to bring that bud duaa thing into picture when you apologize to her.

Heart Desire · Sep 10th, 2008, 09:41 AM

thanku so much now it makes more sense to me