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Oct 27th, 2008, 03:35 AM
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Is it OK to love two people at one time?
Relationships are complex. And it can't get more complex than being in love with two people at one time. A Catch 22 situation? Well, in matters of the heart you can never be sure. Question is: is it really possible for an individual to fall in love with two people at the same time? Even if it is possible, is it ethically correct? Or do you think that moral policing should be kept away from such liaisons
Please share your opinion
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Oct 27th, 2008, 03:46 AM
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Honestly Iam not sure if you can love two people at once. Personally,I don't think you can.I believe true love is unique...so you cannot be in love with two people at the same time...
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Oct 27th, 2008, 03:49 AM
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Okay seriously, It can be possible but really complicated. Think of it all logically...pros and cons and move on 
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Oct 27th, 2008, 03:52 AM
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Yes,if you feel that you love two people at a time,then chances are that either you love only one of them or you love none of them..you can understand it by giving yourself sometimes and thinking about it..
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Oct 27th, 2008, 11:03 AM
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No, you cannot love two people at once...you can be infatuated with two for a while that may seem like love but not love both.
Agar koi baat bigar jaye...agar koi mushkil parjaye...
Tum dena saat mera...O Humnava
Na koi hai...na koi tha...zindagi mein tumhare siva...
Tum dena saat mera...O Humnava
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Oct 27th, 2008, 11:13 AM
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lol ... nice qs .. it is possible bt u need to be more careful regarding each n everything .. so tht none shd hurt ... if both felows didnt find any prob .. thn no harm ...n if u r hurtin som1 n tryin to cheat 1 over other .. thn its nt ethically correct ... 
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Oct 27th, 2008, 11:31 AM
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Ustad jee, you are sub kay ustaad you should know all the answers why you are asking this question ? Just kidding.
Polygamy for men is allowed in Islam so I guess it is possible and allowed for men to love more than one woman at the same time.
On the other hand polygamy for women is not allowed , so even if it is possible that a woman may love more than one man but that will be against our religion for a woman who is in a marital relationship. As far as love before marriage is concerned one is free to love as many persons as he/she wish , but in the end when it comes to getting married, a woman, will have to decide on the best choice and for men if they can afford and if two or more woman agree to marry this guy at the same time he can go for it.
How practical it is to love more than one person before marriage or after marriage ? I would not know , only those who have been through this kind of situation can best answer that question.
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Oct 27th, 2008, 01:06 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by PSquared
No, you cannot love two people at once...you can be infatuated with two for a while that may seem like love but not love both.
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Thats what I think too.
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Oct 27th, 2008, 01:23 PM
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no u can not luv to people at the same time. are you sure u just cant make up your mind?
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Oct 27th, 2008, 01:31 PM
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I love alot of people at the same time in my life: my mom, my dad, my sisters, my brother, my husband, my in laws, my friends. So yes its possible to love two, three or even ten people at the same time.
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Oct 27th, 2008, 01:40 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by desigirl786
I love alot of people at the same time in my life: my mom, my dad, my sisters, my brother, my husband, my in laws, my friends. So yes its possible to love two, three or even ten people at the same time.
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Exactly. Parents love their many children, children love both parents, siblings love their many siblings and we can go on and on and name similar instances. I'll even say that it's more odd to love only one person than to be able to love more than one person. So there isn't anything wrong with loving 2 (or even more than 2) people at the same time.
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Oct 27th, 2008, 02:19 PM
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Yeah, why not? People do that all the time.
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Oct 27th, 2008, 02:23 PM
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you can love 4 at the same time 
When the power of love overcomes the love of power, the world will know peace. - Jimi Hendrix
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Oct 27th, 2008, 02:36 PM
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^ lol. i think you can. should you? no.
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Oct 27th, 2008, 02:40 PM
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^ yes, you can but in different rooms.
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Oct 27th, 2008, 02:43 PM
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^ Who said, I can do them all in one room......Hee hee
If you believe that God talks to you or you feel his divine presence......In reality, it's just that some chemicals in your brains which are going out of Whack !!
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Oct 27th, 2008, 03:42 PM
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^ There is a word that starts with B, has a G in the middle and ends with a T for that kind of ritual.
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Oct 27th, 2008, 04:05 PM
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Dude love come in package with commitment.
You can't be hurting the person you love by loving a SECOND person.
I mean unless you get paid to love. You know... different ppl every time.
This is your life, Now!! Not far future and certainly not the past.
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Oct 27th, 2008, 04:11 PM
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Love 2 people at the same time? No no!
Some days are a complete waste of make-up!
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Oct 27th, 2008, 04:24 PM
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kissi nai saahi kaha hai love saab sai hoo jata hai ISHQ sirf aik sai hota hai
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