redvelvet

You're taking the issue to an extreme. Gina posted about a guy making a big deal about a girl receiving an education in the UK/US in a dorm. This is not about wearing shorts. It's about getting an education....which shapes your mind....which develops intellect.

kakaballi

People would say things regardless of what you do. Co-ed or madrassa, someone would have a problem with that. If you'd start thinking about what someone said about something you're doing, you'll never get anything done :P

CM

Amir Pindi and PM the Holy Prophet (SAW) said "Seek Knowledge whether you have to go to China" and the chinese are kufar. So when education is given so much importance by the Holy Prophet that we should even learn from the Kufar who are you to judge otherwise?

A girl has every right to a decent if not brilliant education regardless of where she is living. Dorms are usually walls gender based and never co-ed. So its not an issue. Plus you should trust these ladies as after all they will be mothers and house wives some day.

PSquared

Tell this guy PSquared says ^(&(*(^%$%^&&E$%^*$%^*$%&*%^&*

Gina~

I think I need to sanitize my melon-baller..and get to work! WHY do men think studying in co-ed is a big deal? I tried to convince this person that if u want to sin.. it doesn't have to be in a dorm! A girl in pardah/naqaab can also make excuses and meet men..

uff @ pagalpan!

Monk

Gina~

U usually dont have a choice in the UK/US.. it all boils down to you. A co-ed dorm is as shady as the outside world.. relax!

amir_pindi

PM nice one..

CM... Nabi pak did indeed say go to china for knwoledge. But note he did say knowledge and not specifically education; education can be gained anywhere.
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And Nabi Pak always advised us to avoid mixing of anykind with the opposite sex and avoiding adverse/inapprpriate enviroments if we could.
And it doesnt mean to do one halaal thing you comrpimise on another haram or makroo (disliked) thing

If Nabi Pak was alive at that time and there was some education in China that was not unavaleble in Arabia, I think he would advise a girl or anybody to and learn it and stay at home.

Th Bottom Line is that:

Un-matured Girls shud not be sent to study in a far off place on thier own.

And when its in a less islamic enviroment, i,.e West, the above applies even more.

amir_pindi

clap pls

Monk

read mine again. as ALWAY I shared TOO much details.

amir_pindi

agree with ur strong points pm.

well it depnds on what ur girl.duaghter is like what ur family is like.

If your a 'broad-minded' family, who doesnt detest to the idea of boys-girls frienships, gf/bf relatinships, then it wouldnt matter to them sending girl to co-ed.

If its a family who take thier daughters chasitisy as important, then better not to send to co-ed.

tinker85

Okay the guy neeed to tight sum of his screws!

There r a looot factors which count! v r not living in old times dat girls shudnt get any education...dat time is long gone!. But the need of time is to have strong sense of moral n islamic values!.
My parents wud have done wrong with me by not educating me in dat respect...by not telling me wat is right n wat is wrong!. There r limits to everything n wenever the limits are broken things does harm u!.It all depends on a person's personality n mental maturity!.

My say is dat Its better to stick with girls only dorms....n dis goes for guys too they better stick wid boys only dorms. Too much mingling of opposite sexes does creates messes!..but again it all depends on the individuals involved.

One have to be very carefull in co-ed...be it girls or guys!. Its a responsibility of both genders to check n balance themselves.

Captain FT

*Dishkian Dishkian*

Monk

Thank you boss!!

amir_pindi

yaar captain ft ager aap apni daari shave kerlain toh kitne khoobsurta lagge gaai

i mean kisi koi apko kiss kerna par jay toh kider karein gi bechari aami ya wife..beard must be very irritating

Gr8Heera

What have you done so they said that?

Mostly when ppl do something wrong then ppl say these type of things.

Monk

Gina"tight slap? Do I need to bring out my melon-baller?"

that's what she did gr8

Gr8Heera

LOL kaheen pay to nabi paak ka zikr kartay ho aur kaheen pay darhi katnay kahtay ho. Yay kaisa doghla pun hai.

Aap ki darhi naheen ho gi na?

Agar khud achcha kaam naheen kartay to doosron ko to karnay do. Agar kar naheen saktay khud to kisi ko mana to naheen karo.

Unhon nain to aap ko kuch naheen kaha kay darhi rakho kay na rakho to aap kon hotain hain unko yay kahnay walay?

Unki darhi kia kaantay bun kay aap ko chubh rahay hain? Agar haan to kioo?

amir_pindi

Mai toh unka dost hoon dost ke tara muswra deh raha hoon. Teek hai, unki apni merz mager menine maswara diya sirf.

Aur is mai bora kia kaha, itna kaha ke dari saaf kerlein toh kitne zaida khoobsurta legain ge.
I mean jase hum apni aurto ko expect kerta hai khboobsurta lagne ko, aunka bi toh koi haqq hota hai.

I mean kisi aurat ko unko pyaar dena pare, for example aami ya wife toh unko daari chube gi nai.

Aur baat apni ker hi di, toh mai be kehta hoon teek ke wasey app kon hote ho beech mai bolne wale...ap captain ke wazeer ho kia

ya captain ko bhulne mai problem hai.

aggee ho ho apni karrtootoh pe wapes...ke pir zaida sach bolne ne se apne aap ko expel na karwa lena gupshu[p se

praise rahe is dafa 3 weke ki chuti nai permant mile gi

Ma Mooli

Does this bottom line apply to muslim boys as well? or are they beyond such temptations?