i have lost my sleep coz ov dis - Page 3

bebo · Jul 2nd, 2009, 08:02 PM

You should practice trust fall with him.

mehroze · Jul 2nd, 2009, 09:18 PM

hey guppies i really appriciate all ur sincere advises and am feeling lucky to be part of gup shup as all of ur sugesstions helped me out clear my mind and mashallah i feel much better its just that i luv hubby too much and am a very posessive wife and due to listening to stories from my friends i get paranoid easily

thanks to allah i tried to sort things out and am happy that things got positive be4 it all got out ov hands...i feel lucky to have such a good MIL and a hubby who loves me a lot and the cutest son in the world mashallah please do remember me in ur prayers

nadz123 · Jul 3rd, 2009, 12:06 PM

Mehroze- i can imagine what you must think.....i can imagine me going through the same thought process that you did....however i would go on gut instinct, theres a thin line between paranoia and instinct, you need to know which one it is....on this occasion i think your husband is faithful....

shamsa_sh · Jul 6th, 2009, 03:16 PM

keep in eye on ur hubby and try to talk to him maybe he'll spit out something best of luck !

Pakilarka · Jul 6th, 2009, 03:22 PM

^^ does she really have to have doubts on her hubby ?

Mabrook · Jul 6th, 2009, 10:14 PM

mehroze i'm glad everything was sorted out but i was just wondering with everything going on good in ur life MA y a sense of insecurity?? change ur company i guess.

hitchki · Jul 7th, 2009, 01:02 PM

HOW CAN U BE SO SELFISH.

there are women who sew their sawtans clothes and you are hitchki(;=)chaing over one suit for a woman who may/maynot exist.

sharing is caring mehrose.

Muzna · Jul 7th, 2009, 01:30 PM

aahmed · Jul 7th, 2009, 02:34 PM

What are you 16?

amir_pindi · Jul 7th, 2009, 03:06 PM

No bro shes just arab.

mehroze · Jul 14th, 2009, 11:58 PM

lol and why would u say im arab amir_pindi

Iggle · Jul 15th, 2009, 01:21 AM

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Originally Posted by mehroze

hey guppies i have got a problem.recently i discussed sumthing here and seriously the suggestions i got were really good and my hubby has really been dere for me after i spoke to him that i require time.neways yesterday my hubby came home and said his best friend (i know the best friend) called him that his wife needs a good outfit for a desi wedding ASAP. me having a outlet hubby said please pick up sumthing which is for shadi but not sleeveless or capris as she wont wear it i said ok i did so and since den i have been so upset as i dun know why im doubting him..is it my mind or what i just cant figure out. i spoke to mum in law as she is here dese days about what happened she laughed and said its just that u are thinking negative...if he wanted sumthing for sum girl he could secretly go to any designer shop and get it...and why would ur hubby pay at ur own outlet if he was playing games...but i just couldnt sleep all nite and have been crying since last nite...please suggest me sumthing.

I am surprised that you actually spoke about your Husband like that to your MIL! Lol! I don't think doing that is such a good idea.

My husband (may Allah swt bless his soul) would tell me that his friend's wife needs help with decorating her home etc. Actually her Husband asked my Husband as his wife was very shy in making friends. Anyway, I knew she was capable of doing it herself but I understood that my Husband and her Husband just wanted us two to get together. We became such great friends after that. It was just an excuse for us to meet and get to know one another!

I am sure that your Husband's best friend's wife can pick her own outfits...but again it looks like to me is that your Husband is trying to find ways for you to become closer to and enjoy time with his best friend's wife - which makes sence, because then all four of you could have a great time out.

Iggle · Jul 15th, 2009, 01:26 AM

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Originally Posted by bebo

You should practice trust fall with him.

sadzzz · Jul 15th, 2009, 01:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Straight_up

I don't know either sadzzz, but having read her previous thread - it seems like the husband is just super-duper-over-the-top busy. She gets stood up on quite often. Plus, why is he asking her for a woman's outfit and saying "she" won't wear it if it's sleevless or whatever. Shouldn't he get his 'friend's wife' or whatever the story is, to call his wife and get that outfit arranged? I don't know sadzzz, many men display the 'offence is the best defense' strategy when it comes to cheating - which includes just this: make her think she's going insane for even doubting him.

true... but maybe his friend (whose wife they are getting the gift for) is just a stingy lil thing. And he prob thought why not just ask my friends wife to get somethign from her store and specified he doesnt like sleevless..

I know im prob giving the hubby and the guy too much benefit of the doubt. But i have seen some men who do dumb things (like this) and then blame the girl for thinking she was shakki mijaaz