Strictly for Men series (No women allowed) - Rishta with prior baggage - Page 2

McPendo · Jul 2nd, 2009, 01:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Yea_Boii

I'm starting the Strictly for Men thread series where I would like to get opinions ONLY from the men on this site. Ladies, you are welcome to read, but please do NOT post any replies as I'm not interested in what you have to say on these particular topics.

So guys, are you ok with marrying a girl who has had a prior relationship (BF etc)?

oh yeah i'd marry her she has to be nice though not ***** about it in bed how her previous hubsand/bf was good and this that then i'll get pissed!

NJMasti · Jul 2nd, 2009, 01:44 PM

^LOL

ye no one would like it if they ttalk about their past bf/gf to the present partner.

you are allowed to cut her tongue off! if she does that. Issue resolved. She has a chance in life, and you have a person who won't ever speak about her past again!

see so simple!

haha

maroush · Jul 2nd, 2009, 01:46 PM

If she has whole heartedly repented for her sin, then why should she not be considered?

PS: Don't put hussys and divorced ladies in the same catagory

NJMasti · Jul 2nd, 2009, 01:47 PM

^BUT BUT BUT! Why do you say that she must have repented for her sins - I mean she may NOT HAVE COMMITTED ANY SINS in the first place.

Cheegum · Jul 2nd, 2009, 01:57 PM

Once i reach 30 i will give up sleeping with random women and marry a nice 18 year old virgin who has never been within 50 miles of a male before.

maroush · Jul 2nd, 2009, 02:03 PM

^ Attaboy!

Just make sure you repented for your sins

Cheegum · Jul 2nd, 2009, 02:06 PM

I don't have to. Males are exempt from any accountability didn't you know? Only women need repent. This is how we do things here in our desi utopia.

Lafanter · Jul 2nd, 2009, 02:18 PM

lol every one beating around the bush,

Q is pretty simple and my ans is yes.

ehl-e-chamman · Jul 2nd, 2009, 02:19 PM

heh ... desi utopia ... i like that
not only must all women repent for their actual and imagined sins... they must absolutely take full responsibility for all sins done to them by others ... as they must surely have incited the event ... right?? or am i right?

OP: I would say something to you but you don't wanna hear from me ... wrong gender n all ...

NJMasti · Jul 2nd, 2009, 03:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Cheegum

Once i reach 30 i will give up sleeping with random women and marry a nice 18 year old virgin who has never been within 50 miles of a male before.

cheegum - you know how girls like to chew gum and pop it all the time... so be careful you must know - the 18 yr old virgin will not prefer a chewed popped up gum after all.

so chose your randomness carefully. There might be a genuine person among those so so so ... you know

PaRtyGuyz · Jul 2nd, 2009, 03:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Yea_Boii

I'm assuming the girl didn't have any physical relationships (or atleast so she claims!)

i doubt it (with Experience)

McPendo · Jul 2nd, 2009, 03:47 PM

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Originally Posted by NJMasti

^LOL

ye no one would like it if they ttalk about their past bf/gf to the present partner.

you are allowed to cut her tongue off! if she does that. Issue resolved. She has a chance in life, and you have a person who won't ever speak about her past again!

see so simple!

haha

This happened to my friend he had sex with his girlfriend and apparently he didn't satisfied her like her previous boyfriend did so she blatantly told him, upon hearing that he got extremely embarrassed and felt half of a man and when he told this i laughed so hard at his face he got red ahahahahahah. Girls man so immature!

PaRtyGuyz · Jul 2nd, 2009, 04:11 PM

^^Ouch, she was blunt..

sali786 · Jul 2nd, 2009, 05:24 PM

GUYS HAVE ALOT OF BAGGAGE ALSO- MANY of them have it MORE than girls- so WHY should girls B ALWAYS looked upon as bad?? and questioned whether she should be married or not-

many guys HIDE IT TILL DEATH!! wat the hell- kya baqwaas yaar-

This is the mentality i hate- Men can trash on a women if she has a past and had sex but at the same time Women are suppose to forgive the guy for his Kartoots? oh please!!!

First of all- it shouldnt ever happen until marrige- second- if a guy wants to NOT tell the chick- the girl shuld keep her mouth shut about it also- but the only problem is WE WOMEN like to start off on a good note- and b HONEST- while men would act like OMG how dare she while he's done it himself-
there should be a thread: for women only- would u marry a guy whos got BAGGAGE- watch many of them say- ohh i never knew HE HAD BAGGAGE-

sorry this mentality really upsets me!

lil_ash · Jul 2nd, 2009, 06:43 PM

u know i honestly hate men wit ur kind of mentallity. if she has alot of past baggage its because of a man....and trust me atleast 6 out of 10 men use a women emotionaly and metaly n n leave her. and MEN ARE FULL OF BAGGAGE AS WELL ! just as much or even more den a women. AND IT SHUDNT RELI MATTER IF SHE HAD PAST RELATIONSHIPS AS LONG AS SHES OVER IT AND HAS NO INTENTIONS OF DOING IT AGAIN.

McPendo · Jul 2nd, 2009, 06:56 PM

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Originally Posted by PaRtyGuyz

^^Ouch, she was blunt..

i know but hey sex is still sex dont care about the girls point of view just enjoy your self "Sadism" YES!

marwah · Jul 2nd, 2009, 10:18 PM

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Originally Posted by sali786

GUYS HAVE ALOT OF BAGGAGE ALSO- MANY of them have it MORE than girls- so WHY should girls B ALWAYS looked upon as bad?? and questioned whether she should be married or not-

many guys HIDE IT TILL DEATH!! wat the hell- kya baqwaas yaar-

This is the mentality i hate- Men can trash on a women if she has a past and had sex but at the same time Women are suppose to forgive the guy for his Kartoots? oh please!!!

First of all- it shouldnt ever happen until marrige- second- if a guy wants to NOT tell the chick- the girl shuld keep her mouth shut about it also- but the only problem is WE WOMEN like to start off on a good note- and b HONEST- while men would act like OMG how dare she while he's done it himself-
there should be a thread: for women only- would u marry a guy whos got BAGGAGE- watch many of them say- ohh i never knew HE HAD BAGGAGE-

sorry this mentality really upsets me!

you tell em sali786!

maybe there should be a thread like this only for women. and call me crazy but i will search and search until i find someone with almost no "baggage". if guys can ask for a pure girl, we girls have the right to ask and be with a pure guy also. guys can't and won't have it any easier than girls.

Desi_BeauTii · Jul 3rd, 2009, 12:51 AM

Most men will always think they should be able to get away wit more cuz they r men. Sad but true. It's a selfish mentality that cannot be changed.

Gaia · Jul 3rd, 2009, 06:47 AM

men

^Smack yourself really hard!

Now if a girl tells you that she DID, indeed have a bf before you, well deal with it, and if your too much of a prissy to handle it then find one of your own types, who is easier for you to handle!!
Now if she is a lier and you didn't catch her, well that is your stupidity, not hers.

Ohhhh...and have we ALREADY forgettin the Islamic rule: never judge each others past???? I think soo!

You judged, she had a bf, done deal, your both are meant for each other.

PaRtyGuyz · Jul 3rd, 2009, 03:14 PM

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Originally Posted by McPendo

i know but hey sex is still sex dont care about the girls point of view just enjoy your self "Sadism" YES!

Just don't do it again...n have some self respect..