Strictly for Men series (No women allowed) - Rishta with prior baggage - Page 3

McPendo · Jul 3rd, 2009, 03:18 PM

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Originally Posted by PaRtyGuyz

Just don't do it again...n have some self respect..

Its not me, im just giving an example. I mean who here cares about a girl when they're having sex? ahahaah No one ahaha thats the truth! MARQUIS DE SADE YOU ROCKKK!!!

Mabrook · Jul 3rd, 2009, 05:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Yea_Boii

I'm starting the Strictly for Men thread series where I would like to get opinions ONLY from the men on this site. Ladies, you are welcome to read, but please do NOT post any replies as I'm not interested in what you have to say on these particular topics.

So guys, are you ok with marrying a girl who has had a prior relationship (BF etc)?

y ur girl carries her bagage everywhere. tell her to leave it at home or bury in her backyard so u both can find peace of mind.

PS: PLEASE DO NOT READ MY POST IAM A FEMALE

Yea_Boii · Jul 3rd, 2009, 08:43 PM

Well this thread went down the toilet fast. Thanks ladies!

Mabrook · Jul 3rd, 2009, 09:02 PM

wujood-e-zan se hai husne kainayat main rang..

jaadugar · Jul 4th, 2009, 03:34 AM

Be a man and accept her gladly whether she had a past or is a divorcee. And if you do get together with her, my humble request is that never ever bring that past thingie up with her. In other words if you can't handle this then don't even bother to get involved. No offense but you are not even sure and hence are asking others' opinions. So my updated advice is that stay away. Don't ruin someone's life.

sali786 · Jul 4th, 2009, 11:07 AM

^^^ ehhmmm Jaadugar

U owe us an ENDING TO A STORY!!! i still remember!!! Erum and Ali's life story..

ArchitectTrader · Jul 6th, 2009, 10:50 AM

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Originally Posted by jaadugar

Be a man and accept her gladly whether she had a past or is a divorcee. And if you do get together with her, my humble request is that never ever bring that past thingie up with her. In other words if you can't handle this then don't even bother to get involved. No offense but you are not even sure and hence are asking others' opinions. So my updated advice is that stay away. Don't ruin someone's life.

many a tru word said amongst a load of bollocks.....

If you have to ask , you know the answer....

good on you jaadugar

PSquared · Jul 6th, 2009, 11:05 AM

Men usually have more baggage...still in love with their ex-girlfriends...mama's boys that cant let go of the apron strings...imposing buddies that dont respect married life...blah blah blah.

If you cannot handle being married to someone who has been in a relationship before...dont marry her. Chances are, she has sensed your inexperience and is turned off anyway. Women like confident men and being bombarded with a man's insecurities is not my idea of a healthy relationship.

McPendo · Jul 6th, 2009, 01:35 PM

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Originally Posted by PSquared

Men usually have more baggage...still in love with their ex-girlfriends...mama's boys that cant let go of the apron strings...imposing buddies that dont respect married life...blah blah blah.

If you cannot handle being married to someone who has been in a relationship before...dont marry her. Chances are, she has sensed your inexperience and is turned off anyway. Women like confident men and being bombarded with a man's insecurities is not my idea of a healthy relationship.

So he can't hangout with his friends can't love his mom can't watch cricket just say you want a Slave.

ImranQ · Jul 6th, 2009, 02:07 PM

YOU JUST CAN'T ABANDON YOUR PAST its shows your trend. This could happen again (a new BF coming out of closet from nowhere). You can not do anything is she decides to ahve another boyfriend while she is still married. ummm sounds too depressing? Okay, if you are into her then you shouldn't worry about anything other than dig down deep and find out real answer to: IS SHE REA;LY INTERESTED? or you are just another bakra.

Afro-Sheen · Jul 6th, 2009, 03:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Mirch

From religious perspective . Pre- Marital relationships are not allowed in Islam.
Abhi Kar low jo karna hay. JUb qiamat main chitar parhain gay to pata chalay ga , bachoo.

Agreed no they are not allowed. However what if either man/woman had pre-marital relations but repented. Some people go astray but come back to the right path, doesnt mean they should be shunned. Who are we to judge & leave the judging to Allah. People do change.

skull~dust · Jul 6th, 2009, 03:49 PM

I'm okay marrying a girl wid a past relationship as long as it stays in da past. and she is ready to devote herself truly now.

This coz i've had relationships too. not physical though.

Damn ....i 'd even proposed my teacher when in sixth grade.
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