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Jul 2nd, 2009, 03:34 AM
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I'm starting the Strictly for Men thread series where I would like to get opinions ONLY from the men on this site. Ladies, you are welcome to read, but please do NOT post any replies as I'm not interested in what you have to say on these particular topics.
So guys, are you ok with marrying a girl who has had a prior relationship (BF etc)?
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Jul 2nd, 2009, 03:41 AM
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yeah good question.
It depends if she had sex tbqh.
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Jul 2nd, 2009, 04:00 AM
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I'm assuming the girl didn't have any physical relationships (or atleast so she claims!)
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Jul 2nd, 2009, 04:10 AM
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Whatcha gonna do?
Agar koi baat bigar jaye...agar koi mushkil parjaye...
Tum dena saat mera...O Humnava
Na koi hai...na koi tha...zindagi mein tumhare siva...
Tum dena saat mera...O Humnava
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Jul 2nd, 2009, 04:22 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Yea_Boii
I'm starting the Strictly for Men thread series where I would like to get opinions ONLY from the men on this site. Ladies, you are welcome to read, but please do NOT post any replies as I'm not interested in what you have to say on these particular topics.
So guys, are you ok with marrying a girl who has had a prior relationship (BF etc)?
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yes, what's wrong with that...
i believe what is done has done and cannot be undone, so instead on crying on split milk, lets move on... I'll appreciate if girl will tell me that she had an affair and they broke up etc etc,
Standing for what you believe in, regardless of the odds against you, and the pressure that tears at your resistance, means courage
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Jul 2nd, 2009, 04:40 AM
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& if she is divorced???
hmmmmmmmm
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Jul 2nd, 2009, 04:43 AM
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^Same rule applies, if she is divorced so be it... that is past...
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Jul 2nd, 2009, 05:29 AM
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Question is, how the f'k would you know if she had any past relationships and whether or not they involved some monkey-style kung fu? If you have to rely on her words, then it doesn't make any difference - she wont tell you anyway.
Ik tay mein sohna, uttoun meray nain nasheelay..
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Jul 2nd, 2009, 07:48 AM
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ye agree wid pssquared! What he gonna do! LOL
Listen boii - all these guy opinion are not going to matter anyways because you need more story / details from us girls on WHY THE HECK A GIRL would even CONSIDER you AFTER having been with someone so special to her - for whom she lost her virginity to. So change your title - and say GIRLS tell me why you would want to consider "us" boyz after you have been wid someone so dear to you?
Last edited by NJMasti; Jul 2nd, 2009 at 07:58 AM..
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Jul 2nd, 2009, 08:03 AM
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Suck my Humility
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^ NJM your post reeks of feminism 
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Jul 2nd, 2009, 08:08 AM
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Boiii. You gotta outline if your scenario is in islamic i.e muslim perspective or non muslim hence non islamic.
cos being muslim and non muslim would have two different scenarios and outcomes.
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Jul 2nd, 2009, 08:24 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Jaanwar
^ NJM your post reeks of feminism |
iz not!
boii is just being selfish - on why HE should consider a woman with a past.
Boii does not realize - a woman with a past - might be a better person in the future cause of all the mistakes she may have made.
DISCLAIMER: (take these words wid a pinch of salt. i really don't think i wholeheartedly support my own words up there - lol - sovvy)
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Jul 2nd, 2009, 08:29 AM
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Suck my Humility
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Its not about being selfish, its about being a man and about having an opinion.
You are not a man, and hence your opinion doesn't count.
Make yourself useful - go make your man a sammich
(As for not supporting your own words, I know the feeling very well! Lol)
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Jul 2nd, 2009, 08:49 AM
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From religious perspective . Pre- Marital relationships are not allowed in Islam.
Abhi Kar low jo karna hay. JUb qiamat main chitar parhain gay to pata chalay ga , bachoo.
I am a man with a plan. A plan to live a simple , fulfilling life.
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Jul 2nd, 2009, 09:36 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Mirch
From religious perspective . Pre- Marital relationships are not allowed in Islam.
Abhi Kar low jo karna hay. JUb qiamat main chitar parhain gay to pata chalay ga , bachoo.
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LOL.
So true.
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Jul 2nd, 2009, 09:40 AM
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give her 100 lashes then marry her.
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Jul 2nd, 2009, 09:51 AM
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^so same goes for the guy too?
like there should be some lashes reserved for men too - rt?
although my heart would stop while lashing anyone up 
hehhehehe
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Jul 2nd, 2009, 10:16 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by NJMasti
^so same goes for the guy too?
like there should be some lashes reserved for men too - rt?
although my heart would stop while lashing anyone up
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sorry wrong thread.
The OP has asked specifically about the girl having pre martial sex.
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Jul 2nd, 2009, 12:36 PM
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(A divorced girl and a girl with a bf are different things)
Kay I'm leaving!
I will hurt you
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Jul 2nd, 2009, 01:38 PM
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^she's right.
yea_boii, i'm sorry, but you can't have a thread that says "no women allowed" and actually expect that to happen :P
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