nadz123

ok since i have reduced the amount of problems i post for myself, i thought uid try helping my frien out.

basically her and this guy were in love. since the age of 16 until say 19 or 21...they fell out and idnt speak much from 19 onwards, but kept in contact, called on birthdays or casually etc. most of the fault of the break up, i admit, was the girls..she even knows that. the reason they had the first major fight was when he called he dumped her cos his cousin didnt think she was good enuff for him, and he didnt talk to her for 5 weeks ( this was when both were 17_...he then text her saying sorry and he missed..she couldnt get over the hurt s she maybe not delibertly, but she hurt him over the years...by silly games etc. ANYWAY she has tried to locate him now, but has no contact number, no email nothing...i havent seen her this upset before. she wants to conact him again and see him atleast even if its as mates..or antyhing. now i need to know howto find him. i cant see him on facebook. we have no idea where to look. he lives or used to liv in southall.but we dont know if he still lives there. help me guys, we need to find him. even if its for my own sanity....

and no ishes not stalking, they were very much in love, which maybe due to young age went haywire...now shes 24, and would like to atleast speak to him. her parents want her to get married, and she wants to have some sort of closure on him,. i dnt think she ever got over him. and i dnt think he did either.

Sara516

Do u/her/they have any old/mutual friends yall can ask?

seeing as how she cant find him, if she does manage to bump into him some day...it's kismet

libranrulz

Well since they were in contact until 21ish I assume the guy went to university or something that the girl knows about. Just call the uni they usually have email address for their graduates for alumni purposes. Another thing u can try is going through the phone books(by that i mean the online version of the phone book) with his name and his dad's name. If you know where he worked when they were together u can try contacting them with a made up story that ur some relative or acquaintance from back home and now looking for them. Personally, I say let it go you and your friend aren't you gonna achieve much by talkin to the guy. I really don't think closures work this way

lady_lama

what about telephone directories?? ive neva used it myself but i swear when we used to live in wembley we used to get this magazine with peoples names and stuff and contact number... Or try finding someone he knows or knew maybe u can take it from ther... arnt u ment to be in pak??

lady_lama

yeah see the guy who posted above me knows what im talkin about!!! lol

nadz123

we did try the telephone thingy, and its not coming up. maybe they are ex directory. also where he used to work, was years ago , we havent tried yet but shall give it a go....he worked airside at heathrow so its hard to find number for that.

also shes not sure wat uni he went if he did go that is....

im going on monday.....:]

THANKS getting very cold feet now....:{

lady_lama

dont worry, after a coupla days of being married youll be like why was i ever worried... Wish u the best of luck nadz!! Hope everything goes fantastic for u and ENJOY urself loadz... this is UR time be happy and look forward to it!!
If i dont say anything b4 u go wish u a safe journey and make sure u come back and update us all!! lol

xxx

fat spartan

What does he have to do with your sanity? Other than what you've already tried and what's already been suggested, I can't think of anything else.