"you cant do that with your wife" - Page 3

CuteGurl · Sep 12th, 2009, 06:50 PM

u knw me n my frnds werre talking abt y men(husbands) in pakistan have bcum so disgusting regarding there sexual desires/fantasy.for eg one of my frnds married a guy who made her sit n watch porn wid her n she completly hated it cuz he used to get inspired by it...since even holding hands or hugging is sooooo tabbooo in pakistan ppl esp men have no romantic concept of holding hands in their mind for them love is just these sick things behind closed doors.We are muslims n i know behind so out dere isnt allowed but holding hands or some other cute romantic gestures shld be allowed it brings love n concept of romance into the relationship!

*p.s tht pevert guy is educated frm an american skool in pakistan n is rich too who lives in defence.. its just hes a typical paki guy!

snowy_winter · Sep 12th, 2009, 07:24 PM

^ Wow...loads of hate for pakistani guys and stop using the word "paki".... it has derogatory connotations. Khair, from what I know, a husband has the right to fulfill his sexual desires/fantasies with his wife as long as they don't include something perverted like making her watch porn. I think that as long as its within reasonable bounds, he is entitled to it. Who else should a guy turn to for fulfulling his sexual desires/fantasies.... professional girls ?

Having said that, I believe that love, romance and intimacy is way too much important, I mean we are not animals

Waise, I am not sure how do pakistani girls feel about intimacy ? I hope the feeling's mutual.

PyariCgudia · Sep 12th, 2009, 09:30 PM

I love how Life1 gets so much more lively in Ramadan.

PyariCgudia · Sep 12th, 2009, 09:31 PM

BTW what happens when a girl is more hypersexual than her husband?

blackforest_360 · Sep 12th, 2009, 09:39 PM

I agree with xeno on this.

liquidsnake · Sep 13th, 2009, 05:05 PM

Uff Allah, itna hate against men from pakistan, why??

lucky that I dont live in pakistan then. However, its still fun to see how these ladies showing their hate against men with different intrests, lolz

Aishaaa2.1 · Sep 14th, 2009, 12:37 AM

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Originally Posted by PyariCgudia

BTW what happens when a girl is more hypersexual than her husband?

They tell her she's possessed and she gets hit with a jhaaroo

Deeba1234 · Sep 14th, 2009, 01:04 AM

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Originally Posted by PyariCgudia

BTW what happens when a girl is more hypersexual than her husband?

He should try harder. It's her Islamic right to be satisfied sexually and she can even divorce if she feels those needs aren't being met.

InToXiCaTeD · Sep 14th, 2009, 05:03 AM

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Originally Posted by Aishaaa2.1

They tell her she's possessed and she gets hit with a jhaaroo

funguy · Sep 14th, 2009, 10:40 AM

funguy · Sep 14th, 2009, 10:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Aishaaa2.1

They tell her she's possessed and she gets hit with a jhaaroo

lol

Confucius · Sep 14th, 2009, 11:06 AM

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Originally Posted by fbi786

wot on earths rong wiv ya ppz :smach:

Wot m bout2 say may hurt some ppz bt wot da hel wots gta b sed haz gta b sed.

@thread opner, most lykly u aint marid i gt a felin. N since u myb westernizd n ur in pak. So nw tr worid wot u cn n cnt do wit ur wif , so firstly u need 2 get marid yo. N stop woryin wht u cn m cnt do.

Secndly wher the hel u ppz find time to even chek out ppz kissin etc n parks n them doin what eva thy doin. Mind ur own buznes ppl.

Nw since most ov the ppl ere frm the wst. What i wana knw is why copy wht the west-kafir log does ie kisin, holdin hands makin out etc in public, nw baat yeh hai k thez kafir aint got no deen mazhab sharm o haya to consider in ther lyfs they do what animals cn do equaly n reasn behind it iz they dnt hav guidence. Eor them earth is heven so they jst enjyin lyf to the wax wit nufin to lose. But we as muslims hav guidence, ie quran n sunnah for evn such delicate masly as this-wht u cn do n cnt wit ur wyf.. Quran n sunnah explains everyfin regardin this, nw if we aint to follw our OWN teachins then wot difrence is bet wen us n non muslim n equaly animal.

Hadith of nabi kareem SAW quoted frm sahih bukhari sharif. That on day of judgment a persn wil b raisd wit those he folwd and dealt acordingly acording to the ppl he/she folwd. Nw as muslims our quran tels us that we cn do what ever we desire wit our wife n vice versa kepin in mind the boundries n makrohats, AS LNG AS ITS AL IN THE PRIVACY OF UR HOME N ONLY WIT UR WIFE/HUSBAND. *not b/f g/f system n then we dont follw ths, n follw non muslims, where do u stand wit muslim who hav a guide , subhanaAllah its said that when a husband n wife begin to make out n before it they recite bismillah ... The whole act wil become a form of worship n the shaitan wil not intrude n makin u do any forbiden act. Nw tel me which other relign or some ppl ere always moaning that culture done this n done tha has this tht even the act of sexual desire becomes a worship n is rewardd 4 it.
And to those cryin bout culture restrictions. Wel they r right to do so becoz if u sincery pondr quiet alot thingmay b against ur nature bt it keeps ur imaan deen mazhab in check.

N finily if ppz wana knw in detail wot they cn n cnt do. Thn contact me since in islam there is no such thing as bein shy whn it comes to lernin.

N sory 4 the lng and abreviatd post

Oh my GOD! Reading this has given me a headache..
Were you only taught 15 letters of the alphabet or something..

Back to Topic..

Let people live and enjoy their married lives as they wish.. too many other obstacles in married life to worry about when and where to show affection

liquidsnake · Sep 14th, 2009, 04:56 PM

hahaha, first time i am going to say this, NO COMMENTS

still a very funny topic though, hahahah

fbi786 · Sep 14th, 2009, 05:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Confucius

Oh my GOD! Reading this has given me a headache..
Were you only taught 15 letters of the alphabet or something..

Back to Topic..

Let people live and enjoy their married lives as they wish.. too many other obstacles in married life to worry about when and where to show affection

haha sorrry no i wasnt .. i was using ma phone to replllyyy .. and i only had the optio of 9 buttons and one space lol

FrozenFire · Sep 14th, 2009, 06:25 PM

Pakistan is one of the populated country in the world, so is india ( 2nd on the list ), the type of making out that goes in Pakistan is farrrr more than a kiss or hug or whatever western countries can do...

Seef · Nov 5th, 2009, 09:17 PM

My mother in law tried telling me I can't have too much fun with my wife. She said it in the kind of manner where it doesn't sound so bad. I just smiled and winked at her.

"Fikr na kaar, I got thiisssss."

Sara516 · Nov 5th, 2009, 09:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Stardust09

you're so right.

Is this really a suitable discussion to be having when one has to refrain from sexual relations with one's spouse during fasting?

I know this thread is a tad old, but if an internet discussion forum is going to make you "hot" for your spouse....
all i can say is....God bless.

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Originally Posted by fbi786

haha sorrry no i wasnt .. i was using ma phone to replllyyy .. and i only had the optio of 9 buttons and one space lol

That is a really awesome phone u got there buddy. I can barely get GS on my fone.

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Originally Posted by Seef

My mother in law tried telling me I can't have too much fun with my wife. She said it in the kind of manner where it doesn't sound so bad. I just smiled and winked at her.
"Fikr na kaar, I got thiisssss."

Stop trolling seef.