For Da Boyz: Clubbin' - Page 2

aahmed · Oct 26th, 2009, 09:28 AM

I have NEVER been into the club scene, i've been dragged to clubs in the past but I refuse to go now, REFUSE. I'd marry a girl who goes clubbing or whatever. I believe everyone has a past and we have got to stop condemning people for their pasts.

fat spartan · Oct 26th, 2009, 09:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Decent 6Chora

We (group of 3/4 very good friends) started clubbing AFTER getting married. Well when I say clubbing I mean we just used to play snooker, arcade/video games etc at club and never took on the dance floor.

I've played pool, gone to arcades as well. They didn't even have dance floors in those places.

Decent 6Chora · Oct 26th, 2009, 09:43 AM

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Originally Posted by fat spartan

I've played pool, gone to arcades as well. They didn't even have dance floors in those places.

Well there is a difference, we used to go to CLUBS offering pools, arcades and bowling alleys. You must have been going to sports bar or something.

AmorAmor · Oct 26th, 2009, 09:46 AM

Well I'm a girl but I'll still answer this lol...

1) I don't go clubbing, never have and never will. It's not my scene.

2) Honestly, I don't think I could marry a guy who goes clubbing and is involved in that whole atmosphere where there are semi-naked girls/alcohol etc present.

fat spartan · Oct 26th, 2009, 09:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Decent 6Chora

Well there is a difference, we used to go to CLUBS offering pools, arcades and bowling alleys. You must have been going to sports bar or something.

Yeah, a pool hall actually. Arcade games were in arcades. Stopped going to arcades once home consoles started offering the same experience.

Aisha Dubaiwali · Oct 26th, 2009, 09:49 AM

Oh and just remembered as PCG said bars also count, I have been to sports bars many times to watch football matches and stuff.

*HNK* · Oct 26th, 2009, 10:14 AM

1. No
2. Dont think so...

Monk · Oct 26th, 2009, 10:53 AM

@aahnmad
I know how it is.
I was dragged into clubbing and strip bars by friends often.

1-clubs.
I was shy. I did how ever get attention from chicks all the time. I hated club where there was only dance floor and no sitting areas.
One of close dude has non paki gf(2 kids too), she adored me. She use to take me to dance floor and make me dance with her. Since I was shy and stuff. Friend never mind it. He actually use to tell her to make me dance. They felt guilty to force me to be there. And wanted me to 'enjoy'. After so many years I still hate them for not letting me watch a documentary about 'deception and magic' on BBC on a sat night. I searched for that move a million time on web cant find it.

2-strip bars.

I became friends with police-officer, who was a big time loser. He said he had plan to have lots of fun. But every time we end up going to strip bars.
I was drunk in love at that point AND had a EVIL MIL causing problems(as always) so there was this older Greek stripper who use to come talk to me and give me advice. She was more like an aunt to me then any thing else.

Marry a girl who go to clubs::
In arrange marriage it NO NO.

But hmmm If a get a wife who has a thing for that kind of life. BEFORE I pack her stuff. I will make an effort to make her see what I see.
In that case I will watch for 2 things.

1-does she have uncontrollable urge for men. Or its some thing she once did.

If its some thing she did and now its not part of her life. I will be ok HOWEVER

Get this::
I have one friend his 55year old aunt.
1-was caught in most happening club in downtown.
2-She use to go to male strip bars.
3-she use to watch channel(39) gay/les/naked all the time(her niece told me)
4-she had a strange way to keep men around her. And making her hubby ok with it.
5-she did Paper-marriage with a person to get papers.. and slept with him often. When guys wasn't willing too.

That I can't handle. U know what I mean??

Monk · Oct 26th, 2009, 10:54 AM

^is it too long

MIAinVA · Oct 26th, 2009, 11:01 AM

Why would you not take your wife to a club?
Just asking as I've never been to one and my husband keeps on bugging me kay chalo chalo, tumhein dikhaaoon.

Monk · Oct 26th, 2009, 11:07 AM

I so will!!!!
I have seen indian sardarnis in strip joints.
Funny thing is they would be still wearing those indain fitting jeans. What trad mark FOB check shirts.
Looking at exotic dances.

I mean If your wife have that in her system, you got to get that out. We wont want her to carry it till she is 55years old.

pak-one · Oct 26th, 2009, 11:08 AM

1. Yes
2. Yes

funky_chicken · Oct 26th, 2009, 11:29 AM

i'll awnser even tgh am a kurri.

1: no way.... am too much of a achi bachi
2: same as amoramor, i would not want a hubby who went clubbing. i dont care if u didnt do anything wrong, u shld be @ home making my food.

PyariCgudia · Oct 26th, 2009, 11:44 AM

I'm still waiting for:

1. Yes
2. No

Monk · Oct 26th, 2009, 11:46 AM

^
I said that!!

MIAinVA · Oct 26th, 2009, 11:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Monk

I mean If your wife have that in her system, you got to get that out. We wont want her to carry it till she is 55years old.

Huh!!! In her system?? What does that mean?

hareem01 · Oct 26th, 2009, 11:57 AM

^he was talking about her habits i think.

PyariCgudia · Oct 26th, 2009, 11:58 AM

Monk, you're deliberately flaming my thread.

Out.

Gaia · Oct 26th, 2009, 12:04 PM

Pm could you have written a longer post please

Because i have nothing else to read in my life

Gina~ · Oct 26th, 2009, 01:51 PM

For those that say they wouldn't want to marry men that went to clubs (before marriage) because of girls clad in skimpy clothes.. those are found all over.

Going to a club/lounge doesn't mean u have to drink or go home with someone..