For Da Boyz: Clubbin' - Page 3

marwah · Oct 26th, 2009, 01:52 PM

^exactly

Afsoon · Oct 26th, 2009, 01:59 PM

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Originally Posted by PyariCgudia

Okay. This doesn't require much discussion. I just want to get a feel for what the population here is all about.

So two questions, and you can just post answers.

1. Do you go clubbing/Have you been clubbing in the past and maybe just don't do it anymore?

2. Would you marry a girl you know goes clubbing? (Let's say she still does it every now and then)

I am not a guy, but I'll answer anyway.

1. Yes, twice... Actually one was a club, and the second was a "lounge". I absolutely hated the club-scene.. I don't drink or smoke, so found the whole environment a little too obnoxious - for lack of a better word.

2. Yes, I'd marry a guy that goes (or has gone) to clubs.

Shak09 · Oct 26th, 2009, 02:02 PM

1. No, never been never will

2. Depends, probably not.

McPendo · Oct 26th, 2009, 04:01 PM

1.No
2.No

hitchki · Oct 26th, 2009, 05:39 PM

kids need to chillit outit.

yes
yes

Princess1983 · Oct 26th, 2009, 05:53 PM

I'm a girl but thought, I'd answer anyway.

1) Nope, don't do clubs/bars. However these days most leisure complexes have a bar attached to them so even if you want a glass of pepsi you're stuck and have to place an order in the bar.

2)See I'm on mixed thoughts on this one. I know loads of lads I went school with/worked with and none of them were the shariff types and they'd go clubbing just to pick up the 'ras malai'. Hhhmmm. I guess there's no harm in the clubbing thing, if its not taken out of context so yeah I guess if my now husband had said he goes clubbing but doesn't drink/pick up girls/do anything else bad I would have still married him.

samb · Oct 26th, 2009, 06:10 PM

1) yes. went once. wasn't my cup of tea.
2) no, if she's a regular. yes, if it was just to see what the fuss was about.

PyariCgudia · Oct 26th, 2009, 06:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Gina~

For those that say they wouldn't want to marry men that went to clubs (before marriage) because of girls clad in skimpy clothes.. those are found all over.

Going to a club/lounge doesn't mean u have to drink or go home with someone..

I think most guys who do go to clubs are going to get some action. They may not admit to it, but they were.

Most desi girls go to less raunchy places and just typically go for the music an colors. Or like one of those more quiet smooth jazzy lounges...

But dude - we have a HUGE clubbing scene here and nearly every club is filled with raunchy boys and girls looking for temporary meat. If you tell me - I go to the places that are actually restaurants but have a lounge type feel (cross over between an eatery that has music and some couches) that's one thing. But clubs? No. There is nothing clean about them. I generally hated my experience and if you're a regular goer, I doubt you are going just for the music.

hitchki · Oct 26th, 2009, 10:23 PM

I think there is a huge diff between the UK and US clubbing scene.

TeenDabbyWala · Oct 26th, 2009, 10:25 PM

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Originally Posted by PyariCgudia

I think most guys who do go to clubs are going to get some action. They may not admit to it, but they were.

Most desi girls go to less raunchy places and just typically go for the music an colors. Or like one of those more quiet smooth jazzy lounges...

But dude - we have a HUGE clubbing scene here and nearly every club is filled with raunchy boys and girls looking for temporary meat. If you tell me - I go to the places that are actually restaurants but have a lounge type feel (cross over between an eatery that has music and some couches) that's one thing. But clubs? No. There is nothing clean about them. I generally hated my experience and if you're a regular goer, I doubt you are going just for the music.

That's a huge generalization.

McPendo · Oct 26th, 2009, 11:44 PM

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Originally Posted by hitchki

kids need to chillit outit.

yes
yes

lol so hitchki you would marry a girl who goes clubbing? i didnt know you were bi

Aisha Dubaiwali · Oct 27th, 2009, 02:22 AM

Gina~ · Oct 27th, 2009, 05:23 AM

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Originally Posted by PyariCgudia

I think most guys who do go to clubs are going to get some action. They may not admit to it, but they were.

Most desi girls go to less raunchy places and just typically go for the music an colors. Or like one of those more quiet smooth jazzy lounges...

But dude - we have a HUGE clubbing scene here and nearly every club is filled with raunchy boys and girls looking for temporary meat. If you tell me - I go to the places that are actually restaurants but have a lounge type feel (cross over between an eatery that has music and some couches) that's one thing. But clubs? No. There is nothing clean about them. I generally hated my experience and if you're a regular goer, I doubt you are going just for the music.

U'd be surprised that most guys go with male companions for a "night-out" rathar than action. Ofcourse there are those that go with that intention. It's a break from the usual malls and cafe's

*princess* · Oct 27th, 2009, 05:28 AM

I have never set foot in a club in my life and IA never will. As for whoever I end up marrying..hmm..I wouldn't mind if he had been clubbing before because a lot of guys do so it's not really a big deal to me but if he thinks he'd be able to continue that habit AFTER marriage..well..there is no way in hell that would happend!

yourfriend · Oct 27th, 2009, 12:11 PM

1) never
2) i thought i would never... but got to know many things about him after marriage... :-(