diwana

I think marriage is like the relation of blind and handicapped.

(Blind can walk and handicapped can see)

eagle123

in a marriage communication is important, on any matters, obviously the male gonna decide on matters important enough after careful consideration, it mentioned in the quran that the male has a bit more power than the female, if anyone can mention the verse feel free, if a couple are both equal then there is a bit of chaos to whom will decide.

PyariCgudia

You can be dominant, when you learn your punctuation.

MIAinVA

^

redvelvet

Report cards were due today. And I had to grade several essays. Oh the punctuation.......

bigdaddy

^ Its a miracle. You wrote a one liner instead of your usual dissertation.

So you teach slow kids?

redvelvet

Why? Did you need help? Kidding.

Omission of punctuation does not necessarily mean that the student or individual is slow. It's usually done out of carelessness.

Enigmatica

both of them should have their say .. and mutual decision making should be there ..and there should be mutual respect and understanding b/w them.. not a race against who wins over who..

yea maybe the husband needs to have a little upper hand as he's supposed to be head of the family..but that does NOT mean that he has to be intimidating and dominating. mutual respect is the most important element in a successful marriage .

GSUK

Its a miracle. You wrote a one liner instead of your usual dissertation.

Hahahahaa that is funny....i have been on this forum for only one week n even i noticed thaqt abt redvelvet.

Enigmatica

lol yea but RV's 'dissertations' are prolly the most sensible posts around i really like her perspective towards various things ! even though i just joined recently too

redvelvet

And you've only been here one week, and even I've noticed that you're one confused dude. Khair, at least you aren't confused about the length of my posts. Glad my dissertations helped u out a bit in your issues in spite of their great length.

shk_14

well actually sometime it depands on the ladies too some are sensible that u know that they will help u in handling matters.
but there are others who just put fire on the situation so a man should be sensible enough to see that to what extent he has to get dominant over her wife by not leting her feel any way.......yes my hubby is some time dominant over me cause he knows that i cant handle the situation ...so its cool with me again he has build a lovable realation with me that i am okay with his each and every argument...

malta

At least her posts don't make me want to cry at the lack of intelligence amongst kids your age.

if someone bothers to help you with advice, say thank you instead of picking on them for the length of their posts.

COLD_FIRE

Ofcourse.
Finito.

bigdaddy

I am already enrolled.

What do you teach?