Would that be an appropriate question to ask?

Monk · Oct 28th, 2009, 10:58 PM

So is that ok to ask some one, how do they see them selves??
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CM · Oct 29th, 2009, 07:32 AM

Yes but why the hell would you want to ask such a question?

NJMasti · Oct 29th, 2009, 07:36 AM

^lol
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ye monk waz up wid that?

Monk · Oct 29th, 2009, 07:38 AM

Dudeeeeeee
I had the whole scenario written here.
Then I deleted it.

ok
I write it again.

zobia · Oct 29th, 2009, 07:42 AM

Monk, and Monk's bongay thread.

Monk, jab apnay likhay per itna yakeen na ho to likha mut kero.

Monk · Oct 29th, 2009, 07:43 AM

lobia
its not bongy. its deep.
I got your sec point.

Monk · Oct 29th, 2009, 11:07 AM

Ok here is the situation.

Few of your friends are not completely laid-back or taking-it-easy kind. When you around them you don't feel comfortable for one reason for another. They are not grounded.

Is it ok to ask them how they see them self. Or "what exactly you think you are?"
Not in a bad manner but to just to see how the see them self.

hmmmm

marwah · Oct 29th, 2009, 11:11 AM

^i guess you can ask them that, it's not exactly a rude question. but i'm wondering why you hang out with people who make you feel uncomfortable?

Monk · Oct 29th, 2009, 11:13 AM

ppl I like don't want to hang out with me

marwah · Oct 29th, 2009, 11:33 AM

^then just don't go. make friends with people whose company makes you HAPPY.

Monk · Oct 29th, 2009, 11:46 AM

The thing is I am not trying to solve a situation here. I am hmmm just talking.. I guess.
I did not mean they make me feel bad about my self at all.
Its type of delusion some of us temporarily live in.

But get this.
For a long time I thought I was going to be a world-champion. I used to act like it too. Little TOOOOO laid-back, thinking things were gonna come to me eventually.
That did not happen. I am still trying to catch up with things.
At that time I annoyed my loyal friends a lot. They tried to tell me NOT to forget normal/usual life.
But I did.

SO in that context I wanted to know I that ok for us to ask some one how they see them selves.

hareem01 · Oct 29th, 2009, 12:40 PM

It's completely fine.

Monk
Who do you think you are?

Monk · Oct 29th, 2009, 01:19 PM

hmmmm

One question is not enough. hmmm

WitchDr · Oct 29th, 2009, 02:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Monk

So is that ok to ask some one, how do they see them selves??
"

Ok to ask but difficult for others to answer. Not many people have the capability or the will to look inside themselves.

Monk · Oct 29th, 2009, 02:36 PM

hmmmm true that.

COLD_FIRE · Oct 29th, 2009, 02:45 PM

World champion Monk?
I didnt knew Monk_mans_hip is into Olympics. My bad!

Monk · Oct 29th, 2009, 02:49 PM

funny guy ehh??

PyariCgudia · Oct 29th, 2009, 03:02 PM

Yeah dude. Don't waste your time with people you don't like. It's ok for YOU to be selective of who you are friends with.

libranrulz · Oct 29th, 2009, 08:13 PM

Just be like you're doing a social experiment you read in some book and ask them your question ... and make up some bogus story after like if they think that they are good but can be better than tell them you are among 50% of the world population who wants to improve themselves ... or something bogus like that .... that way you have ur answer and no one has to feel awkward

CM · Oct 30th, 2009, 04:03 AM

Dude...someone needs to whack you up side the head. No guy asks another guy what you think of yourself? That is a chick question.

Your friends are your friends. Who gives a flying **** if they aren't grounded and ****. Its their life, they need help they will ask for it.