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Old Oct 31st, 2009, 05:32 PM   #81 (permalink)  
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GS is actually addictive..i should be studyin ent too..but i am not :P






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Old Oct 31st, 2009, 06:16 PM   #82 (permalink)  
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ENT and eye we had last year. I thought PMDC ruled that all 4th year students must have it in thier course? Weird. Its easy though. im dreading peads medicine and surgery







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Old Oct 31st, 2009, 06:18 PM   #83 (permalink)  
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yea i am in 4th year ..






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Old Nov 1st, 2009, 03:17 AM   #84 (permalink)  
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Good luck you two with the nikah/rukhsati and studies BTW =S I ought to be studying too *sighs*






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Old Nov 1st, 2009, 12:15 PM   #85 (permalink)  
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Old Nov 1st, 2009, 12:37 PM   #86 (permalink)  
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I know someone who got pregnant before her rukhsati .. her family had to do emergency rukhsati and she was talk of the town for a long time..
We went to one earlier this year where the bride had already had a baby lol






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Old Nov 1st, 2009, 01:05 PM   #87 (permalink)  
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The concept of engagament does exist in Islam, only desis seem to think it doesn't. I believe the Prophet Mohammed (PBUH) had a period of engagement with Khadija, signalling his intent to marry her. During this period the two ppl in question are supposed to stop considering other 'potentials' as they've shown their intention and promise to marry one another. It's basic common sense and is sunnah. Also, an engagement party is permitted tho of course it isn't an Islamic practice and shouldn't be seen as such. I guess we should just see it as a sort of celebration but without all the added stuff that Christians do such as it being mostly about the ring..

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Are engagements classified as a sunnah? Is there precedence from the Prophet salaLlahu alahi wasalam, or tradition?


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In the name of Allah, Most Compassionate, Most Merciful,
If by �engagement� it is meant both parties agreeing and promising one another to enter into the contract of marriage (nikah), then this, obviously, is permissible and not something that is an innovation, for marriage must of course be preceded by mutual agreement.
Even in the days of the Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) and his Companions (Allah be pleased with them all), obviously mutual agreement between the relative parties would take place before the actual Nikah ceremony.

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Old Nov 1st, 2009, 01:10 PM   #88 (permalink)  
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Well nowadays one can nikahfied via phone which I don't think is something good at all...

As for rukhsati it IS important, it should be made public that two people are married(it'll stop all types of rumours).
I know some people who dislike things such as rukhsati etc. as they believe it's not Islamic but merely culturally attached.
I always wonder with phone nikah how can u be sure the girl has given consent if u can't even see her..






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