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Nov 7th, 2009, 08:56 AM
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Chakkar
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Say you know a guy who is Muslim and hasn't been laid in a loooong time. He is just not ready To get into another marriage and has a history of broken marriages.
He truly believes sex is only halaal with nikkah. Should he get married again even if unstable (mentally and financially) or just spare ruining yet another life and just find someone who will do him a favor?
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Nov 7th, 2009, 09:00 AM
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tum CM ky rang meen rang chuki ho.
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Nov 7th, 2009, 09:02 AM
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I dont think so its a subject to be disscussed...
and specially a gilr is discussing it and its really shameful for muslims.. you shoudnt be a muslim....
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Nov 7th, 2009, 09:05 AM
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PCG, why do you worry? or you are actually asking it for girl and not a guy? - you will not run into one such guy, dont worry
jisey hum sai milna, gawara nahee hai, hum sai mila na karey.....
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Nov 7th, 2009, 09:05 AM
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If this dude is not financially or emotionally ready to get married then no he shouldn't even if he's a horndog.
It's like asking if a 15 year old boy should get married. The obvious answer is no.
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Nov 7th, 2009, 09:06 AM
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Wow this is a tough one. If he is unstable then heshould notget married until he is...I am assuming the instability is beyond normal moodiness and personality quirks.
As to what to do, I guess he will havetogst creative. Nowif he was Shia he could go for a muttah, and for Sunni folks there is misyar aka miss-yaar too, but I guess jury is out on these practices .
Your friendly neighbourhood fraudiya loafer luccha lufanga awara ayaash aubaash ghunda badmaash man
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Nov 7th, 2009, 09:09 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Decent 6Chora
PCG, why do you worry? or you are actually asking it for girl and not a guy? - you will not run into one such guy, dont worry
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lol what? In this economy, almost every Muslim bachelor is like this.
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Nov 7th, 2009, 09:10 AM
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Chakkar
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No. It's for the jerkwad I pseudo-dated. I feel. Like this scenario describes him accurately. It is a serious issue because hormonal guys get married all the time rushing into things and then cannot be good husbands. Also found best friend's ex looking for a wife - he has a history of abuse which he is conveniently hiding. It's a legit question. If you know you're harmful, would you marry knowing you'll ruin a life or just spare a girl and find a hooker?
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Nov 7th, 2009, 09:15 AM
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He sounds like me, except I've never been married or laid.
What to do PCG?
A samurai bares no sign of weakness, even when dying of hunger.
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Nov 7th, 2009, 09:18 AM
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here we go again  :
Wo LaJaE mErE sAwAl Per Ke ,UtHaA sAkE nA jHuKa SaR ,uDdi ZuLf ChEhRe PeR IsTaRaH
Ke ShAbON kE RaZ MaChAl GaE
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Nov 7th, 2009, 09:29 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Gujjar Badshah
I dont think so its a subject to be disscussed...
and specially a gilr is discussing it and its really shameful for muslims.. you shoudnt be a muslim....
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uhuh... and what gives YOU the right to say who should and shouldn't be a muslim? She's only asking a question for crying out loud. If you're so narrow minded and know you will feel offended maybe you shouldn't bother reading the thread as the title makes it clear what its about.
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Nov 7th, 2009, 09:32 AM
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If you know you're harmful, would you marry knowing you'll ruin a life or just spare a girl and find a hooker?[/QUOTE]
PCG u already saying in start of thread that for HIM the sex is halal if he get Nikkah so why he goes for Hooker ?
any way I am agreed with u a guy not allowed to ruin someone life if he is not stable by economically or mentaly.... but what if girl`s parents or girl say YES even they know everything ? Jesa des wesa bheis
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Nov 7th, 2009, 09:36 AM
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Ok Gujjar Badshah is obviously a retard pronouncing people non muslim over a forum.
As for the question I don't think people who are emotionally or otherwise not really for a marriage themselves think that they are not ready. In their head they think that they are ready for commitment and the responsibilities that comes with a marriage. I don't think many people knowingly marry someone if they know they are gonna end up ruining a life. I think most of the time its the immaturity that they themselves don't know that they are ready. Also, some people think that they can change and become more responsible and grow with the relationship which sometimes is true.
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Nov 7th, 2009, 09:50 AM
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Gujjar Badshah nothing wrong with the question she asked and you should not have written your last statement, you should not be a muslim. There are muslims out there who are doing far worse things that just asking a question on a forum. If you were such a good muslim you would not even be in this thread.
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Nov 7th, 2009, 09:56 AM
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I would say go to a hooker. Some people are just not cut out for marriage
♥ green is the new black ♥
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Nov 7th, 2009, 10:07 AM
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Every one calling GB names please give him answers. You can't just twist Islam to suite your need. No one forces you to practice.
I mean you are horny go F-U-C-K don't find its explanation in islam. Cuz there is none. Other then what X2 mentioned.
Now PCG how a girls life get ruined after sex? Because she wont be a virgin?
Did you not hear about that bi-cycle which is responsible of taking virginity away from all non virgin paki girls?
Remember its never a guy who took that away. Its always some thing else.
This is your life, Now!! Not far future and certainly not the past.
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Nov 7th, 2009, 10:12 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by PyariCgudia
Say you know a guy who is Muslim and hasn't been laid in a loooong time. He is just not ready To get into another marriage and has a history of broken marriages.
He truly believes sex is only halaal with nikkah. Should he get married again even if unstable (mentally and financially) or just spare ruining yet another life and just find someone who will do him a favor?
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now who would marry him?!
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Nov 7th, 2009, 10:57 AM
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Jersey Girl
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lol - interesting topic...
I just find it funny that the word horny and Muslim are put together... it's true Muslims can be horny but - LOL - never saw these two together... it just takes away the "purity" of Muslim 
go on ... carry on the conversation... interesting views....
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Nov 7th, 2009, 11:16 AM
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PCG - I'm glad you used the word "dated" not "dating" with that useless person. Such men are not trust worthy muslims, all they do is spend their lives on internet/dating web sites and trying to find girls to get laid, but when responsibility hits them and it's time to prove them being a real husband , they back pedal and go for other girls with their sobbing stories.
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Nov 7th, 2009, 11:23 AM
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Your topics make me laugh.
"This world is a prison for the believers and a paradise for the disbelievers." - Prophet Mohammad (SAW)
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