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I am starting this topic after much ratiocination about the fact that the ground cause of the whole conflict is Kashmir! I want to reach at some conclusion but I would like all my fellows from Pak to suggest whether given the fact that India will never offer Kasmir to Pak, is there any chance of Pakistan turning benign? I know the reply of your military chiefs but I think and have even heard that every Paki doesn't think this way! The ball was always was and still is in Pak's hand! Is it better to tacitly support militancy or whatever strategy, as suggested by the moderator of this forum, in kasmir or is it better to live peacefully, democratically and manoeuvre to achieve great heights in economy, intellect, health care etc.!

P.S.: - Please be true to your heart!