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Apr 9th, 2009, 02:18 PM
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why do we hate people and things? *hate in strong sense*
•๋● ღ "Life is pain, Highness. Anyone who says differently is selling something." ღ •๋●
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Apr 10th, 2009, 04:26 AM
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What a question ! WOW ! I think that in this world some thinks are withe and others thinks are black so in our sol exist to feeling love and hate! We must now what to hate and what to love!
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Apr 10th, 2009, 04:34 AM
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Its all the fault of the guy/guy-ess who came out / invented the word hate .. had they not come up with this . . . we wudnt have used it nor wud we have know what it is.. 
"My dear heart never think you are better than others. Listen to their sorrows with compassion. If you want peace, don't harbour bad thoughts do not gossip and don't teach what you do not know." [Maulana Rumi]
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Apr 11th, 2009, 08:43 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by BlindHope
why do we hate people and things? *hate in strong sense*
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Someone truly said: I don't know how do the people find time to hate when the life is too short to love. So I personally feel that there is no room for hatred in such a short life.
In Rain all occupy shelter but eagle is the only one that avoids rain by flying above the clouds; problem is common to all but attitude makes the difference.
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Apr 11th, 2009, 08:54 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by BlindHope
why do we hate people and things? *hate in strong sense*
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Hate is O.K. i guess, if it truely represents your feelings, and I guess there is no general reason to address this question in general for all things/persons we can possibly hate.
regards
Words
A question reveals alot, while asking something.
The most significant thing a question reveals is itself.
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Apr 13th, 2009, 11:09 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by BlindHope
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Only a "BlindHope" can raise a question as to why "we hate", as soon as sight induces some insight the "audacity of hope" removes the silk of love, and then the glove comes off.
We hate for the same reason we love.
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Apr 13th, 2009, 06:55 PM
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To love hate is to be ignorant
To hate for love is to be wise
It's not important why we feel emotions rather it is critical how we use them for gaining goodness and bettering ourselves.
The Prophet(SAW) said:
"I am leaving you two things and you will never go astray as long as you cling to them -- they are the Book of Allah and my Sunnah." [Reported by Al- Haakim - Sahih].
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Apr 20th, 2009, 03:21 PM
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Actually I hate to hate someone/something...
Somehow it makes sense...or does it?
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Apr 21st, 2009, 11:49 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Imani
Actually I hate to hate someone/something...
Somehow it makes sense...or does it?
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It makes sense, since you are owning the part of you which hates, not rejecting it.
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Apr 23rd, 2009, 12:54 PM
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Who knows? Different for everyone.
Some people hate without any valid reason, like out of jealousy or because of rascist issues for example.
Other people have more valid reasons, like someone doing something very awful to you or to someone you care about for example.
Personally, I have nothing against hate, (even have hatred in me for certain things, certain people) as long as the reasons are understandable, valid.
'Aw, come on, Dumbo. I think your ears are beautiful. As a matter of fact, I think they're very decorative. You know, lots of people with big ears are famous!' ~ Timothy Q. Mouse
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Apr 23rd, 2009, 02:51 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by words
It makes sense, since you are owning the part of you which hates, not rejecting it.
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Please explain....what do you mean by "rejecting it"?
Incidentally the title of this thread "Why" reminds me of a story that a friend who was a philosophy student told us. For an exam the topic was "Why?" Apparently most people struggled and rambled on for a few pages. The best answer was "Why not?"
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Apr 23rd, 2009, 04:42 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by BlindHope
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LOVE/HATE
words are the same check it out:....................
For life and death are one, and only those who will consider the experience as one may come to understand or comprehend what peace indeed means.
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Apr 28th, 2009, 06:27 PM
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very interesting.................
thank you all for contributing !
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Apr 29th, 2009, 03:18 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Imani
Please explain....what do you mean by "rejecting it"?
Incidentally the title of this thread "Why" reminds me of a story that a friend who was a philosophy student told us. For an exam the topic was "Why?" Apparently most people struggled and rambled on for a few pages. The best answer was "Why not?"
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Interesting story Imani, From "rejecting it", what i mean is, not owning one's action to hate, which results in an internal guilt. One calls himself that its not me, who can do this.
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