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      Well I need some advice, I'm getting married in a few months (march 2013) & I'm really nervous about the wedding night, obviously I know the obvious of what might happen, but I guess I'm just fearing the unknown, has anyone got any advice, from personal experience or anything

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      I have started writing daily column in Washington Post about my personal experience. Don't forget to subscribe.


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      Quote Originally Posted by Decent 6Chora View Post
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      i also want advice as im also getting married soon INSHALLAH

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      If you're marrying a Pakistani guy.

      ...Take a knife.... Just in case

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      How old are you?

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      Its alright to feel nervous about the first night. Specially if its an arranged marriage ..

      My advise is to take it easy and rid your mind of all the stories you have heard and the preconcieved notions that you have . Every couple is different so its difficult to say how long they take to get comfortable with each others presence.

      For majority couples , its more about communication then anything else .. remember its not only us girls who are nervous about the first night, men also are going through a similar experience , so spend sometime talking generally, to feel comfortable with one another.

      Go with the flow .. how a couple decides to start their relationship really is upto them, its a very personal thing that two people share , some couples are ready for the lovemaking that very same night , but then many others need time to get to know one another before they get intimate .. so really its down to the couple to decide their pace ..

      What is important is the fact that you dont go in thinking i will do this , he will say that etc etc .. these things can really confuse you and your partner .. so remain relaxed as much as you can to avoid unnecessary pressure on yourself and your partner and inshallah you will be fine ..
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      thankyou

      that helped
      and its both arranged and love marriage at the same time
      im not so worried but more of what is going to happen

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      LOL... ^^

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      If its gonna be an arranged marriage then its perfectly normal to feel lil nervous thinking about it. But you do not need to be worried about it, hes gonna take care of all the stuff, if you know what i mean

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      yeah but how do u bring that up, i just could'nt unless he did, which i doubt he will

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      hahahaha yes

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      Quote Originally Posted by haleema123 View Post
      yeah but how do u bring that up, i just could'nt unless he did, which i doubt he will
      I dont think he's going to have a full on conversation with you about that to start off with. Depending on if he is romantic then he may have a few tricks up his sleeve =D
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      Quote Originally Posted by Kiwi007 View Post
      I dont think he's going to have a full on conversation with you about that to start off with. Depending on if he is romantic then he may have a few tricks up his sleeve =D
      his like the decent type, he doesnt say anything out of term cause he believes all that should be left till after the wedding?

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