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      Quote Originally Posted by el topo View Post
      ^ Fair & Lovely will fix that. :/
      I'm already fair, and too lovely. I'm just trying to help out fellow broskis.
      If a man speaks in a forest and no woman hears him, is he still wrong?

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      Quote Originally Posted by ehl-e-chamman View Post


      I dont know that there is such a trend but if this is in reference to the thread by annie bibi ... then i have to say im confused pcg.
      seemed to me that she is a doc is pk, working super hard and trying to go abroad for more training/to settle ... dont know her end goal ... and is now in limbo because the guy she is sweet on has changed his mind ....
      you blasted her for not "standing by her man" whom you deemed patriotic. problem is we dont know that she is any less patriotic or that she isnt coming back after more training. beyond even all of that ... she has the right to make the right decision for herself doesn't she? ... Arnt you doing that while rishta hunting? looking at education level, location and money making potential?
      did you read the thread where it was mentioned that a girl in order to get married to a doc worked a lot on her appearance and got breast implants? I mean that's too much. Even male doctors should appreciate personality over appearance. Why shouldn't such a demand exist for female daaactarnis?

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      Quote Originally Posted by Ghost14 View Post
      I'm already fair, and too lovely. I'm just trying to help out fellow broskis.
      Don't be too fair or you'll come across too gora which may confuse you with a white guy and dilute your desi looks. You need a bit of tan to pull off the Latin/Mediterranean guy look. lol. jk

      besides the saying is guys should be"tall, dark handsome." Dark guys generally are seen as more appealing/better looking than fair ones. But people consider it opposite for girls where fair is seen as better.

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      Quote Originally Posted by delhi2lahorekarachi View Post
      did you read the thread where it was mentioned that a girl in order to get married to a doc worked a lot on her appearance and got breast implants?
      If you're referring to the post written by CPA about the high school drop-out cousin married to a doc....nothing in that post says that the woman got the breast implants "in order to get to get married". Knowing our desi culture....I believe its a better assumption that she got the implants AFTER the wedding....probably paid for by her doc husband.


      Quote Originally Posted by delhi2lahorekarachi View Post
      I mean that's too much.
      Even if you or someone else thinks its "too much"....so what? Why should a 3rd person's opinion have any bearing on their marriage? She doesn't mind getting breast implants and her husband is on the same page with her. If you don't want to do something like this....then find a husband who's compatible with YOUR beliefs. Why are we so focused on what another woman CHOSE to do in order to keep her husband happy?


      Quote Originally Posted by delhi2lahorekarachi View Post
      Even male doctors should appreciate personality over appearance.
      Why? At the end of the day....doesn't every man (even doctors) have the right to choose a spouse based on criteria's that are important to THEM (whether its personality or looks)?

      Besides, just in case you haven't noticed the thread I'm posting below......there are women out there who will not "appreciate" personality over appearance.

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      i never wished to have a doc as a wife because they have a very busy lifestyle...i wouldn't want to wait on her at home.
      jaane waalo, zaraa muR ke dekho mujhe, ek insaan huN...maiN tumhaarii taraH
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      Living with a doctor ought to make me feel like a patient, sorta like telling a lamb to go consider sleeping with a certified butcher?

      Pharmacists on the other hand, especially Hijabi, are genuine exceptions in my book.

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      Quote Originally Posted by Paheli00 View Post
      If you're referring to the post written by CPA about the high school drop-out cousin married to a doc....nothing in that post says that the woman got the breast implants "in order to get to get married". Knowing our desi culture....I believe its a better assumption that she got the implants AFTER the wedding....probably paid for by her doc husband.




      Even if you or someone else thinks its "too much"....so what? Why should a 3rd person's opinion have any bearing on their marriage? She doesn't mind getting breast implants and her husband is on the same page with her. If you don't want to do something like this....then find a husband who's compatible with YOUR beliefs. Why are we so focused on what another woman CHOSE to do in order to keep her husband happy?




      Why? At the end of the day....doesn't every man (even doctors) have the right to choose a spouse based on criteria's that are important to THEM (whether its personality or looks)?

      Besides, just in case you haven't noticed the thread I'm posting below......there are women out there who will not "appreciate" personality over appearance.

      http://www.paklinks.com/gs/life-and-...ra-weight.html (Extra Weight)
      I mean if she got breast implants because she felt empowered and was not pressured into it then that is ok. Of course as a third person I should not comment but if i was her friend and she asked me I would say natural is better and no guy should pressure her into it. I don't think any guy will go under the knife for a girl. What if a girl in similar situation 6 years later came and posted here saying her husband left her for a girl who was prepared to have an even bigger breast implant. She shouldn't complain then. He chose her for superficial looks and she chose him for superficial job status. Once that expires they are both free to find someone else to fill that gap. Then we'd all give her advice about how wrong it was so maybe it's important to know the root cause of it.


      Women judge based on job status and occupation but most women will prefer a guy with better personality than good looks. In
      PCG has mentioned previously that she is willing to compromise with looks. And as a Pakistani girl, automatically she is quite good looking, so why shouldn't she expect a good looking husband? Educated Pakistani girls have a reputation among other races for being loyal, reliable, intelligent and managing work/house balance well, so why should they feel like they have to downgrade those attributes in finding a partner.

      More female celebrities settle with less good looking men then vice versa. In that thread weight was the issue and if a guy is working to lose that extra weight, for his own health, few would refuse. Things like breasts and other body parts are nt things people can easily change.

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      Quote Originally Posted by delhi2lahorekarachi View Post

      Women judge based on job status and occupation but most women will prefer a guy with better personality than good looks. In
      PCG has mentioned previously that she is willing to compromise with looks. And as a Pakistani girl, automatically she is quite good looking, so why shouldn't she expect a good looking husband? Educated Pakistani girls have a reputation among other races for being loyal, reliable, intelligent and managing work/house balance well, so why should they feel like they have to downgrade those attributes in finding a partner.
      lol wut?
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      For the female docs or other professionals here i have an interesting question. How many of you would marry someone much junior in profession like a nurse if youre a doctor, or a clerk/chaprassi if you're a business person or a male receptionist of a legal firm if you're a lawyer?


      PCG, if you found a guy with all the qualities you were looking for but he was a Pakistani nurse working in the same hospital as you, would you marry him? Like if he agreed to do cooking when you were busy, said you could work as many hours as you wanted, was open minded and flexible about things after marriage and with raising kids, was moderately religious, wanted to be on shift same hours as you so he could assist you, was supportive of your job and role as he realises it's importance for you and his in laws were open minded and if age was not a factor for him,what would you say? what if he wasn't ambitious about his job but he wanted you to reach the highest heights you could?

      There are guys out there who dont want to be part of the rat race and want to have a relaxed job/work life but are ok with their wife being part of it.

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      Quote Originally Posted by RocketSocket View Post
      lol wut?
      what? sachi mein all Pakistani girls are good looking. I have yet to meet a Pakistani girl who isn't good looking/hot but modestly dressed at the same time. Maybe it's just my magnetic personality and i only attract good looking Pakistani girls towards me as friends. But really i have a lot of evidence to support this fact. As a Pakistani guy you must know this fact well. I am going to get an infarction for this comment yaar please Khuda ke liye yahan aisi baat nahi karte yahan gs cafe mein karte hain na. shayad mujhe bhi un pe crush hai :/ lol jk.

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      Quote Originally Posted by delhi2lahorekarachi View Post
      And as a Pakistani girl, automatically she is quite good looking, so why shouldn't she expect a good looking husband?
      Wow....so many things wrapped up in such a simple statement. So all Pakistani girls are "automatically quite good looking" but only non-Pakistani girls can be ugly?

      And what about non-PakistanI women who aren't "automatically quite good looking".....should they not expect a good looking husband?

      And is it ok for a woman to reject a man based ONLY on his looks (ie. after seeing a picture) b/c she herself is good looking?


      Quote Originally Posted by delhi2lahorekarachi View Post
      Educated Pakistani girls have a reputation among other races for being loyal, reliable, intelligent and managing work/house balance well, so why should they feel like they have to downgrade those attributes in finding a partner.
      1) The part in bold.....is that a personal opinion or a proven fact?

      2) As for the 2nd part.....let me ask this......why should a Pakistani man (or any man for that matter) downgrade ANY of their expectations as long as they can find a woman that meets their criteria? Going by the threads in this forum.....clearly its not the men who are having trouble find a spouse. So as long at there is a supply of women to meet their demands.....why should ANY man out there compromise at all?

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      Quote Originally Posted by Paheli00 View Post
      Wow....so many things wrapped up in such a simple statement. So all Pakistani girls are "automatically quite good looking" but only non-Pakistani girls can be ugly?

      And what about non-PakistanI women who aren't "automatically quite good looking".....should they not expect a good looking husband?

      And is it ok for a woman to reject a man based ONLY on his looks (ie. after seeing a picture) b/c she herself is good looking?




      1) The part in bold.....is that a personal opinion or a proven fact?

      2) As for the 2nd part.....let me ask this......why should a Pakistani man (or any man for that matter) downgrade ANY of their expectations as long as they can find a woman that meets their criteria? Going by the threads in this forum.....clearly its not the men who are having trouble find a spouse. So as long at there is a supply of women to meet their demands.....why should ANY man out there compromise at all?
      Why are you so angry for? Jesus Christ. Pakistani girls are the most ugly looking creatures I have ever seen. The insides are even worse and they are wannabes.
      /s
      Happy?
      Edit: Pakistani female species are beautiful. Got bombarded really hard.
      Last edited by RocketSocket; Sep 11th, 2013 at 04:56 PM.

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      Quote Originally Posted by delhi2lahorekarachi View Post
      what? sachi mein all Pakistani girls are good looking. I have yet to meet a Pakistani girl who isn't good looking/hot but modestly dressed at the same time. Maybe it's just my magnetic personality and i only attract good looking Pakistani girls towards me as friends. But really i have a lot of evidence to support this fact. As a Pakistani guy you must know this fact well. I am going to get an infarction for this comment yaar please Khuda ke liye yahan aisi baat nahi karte yahan gs cafe mein karte hain na. shayad mujhe bhi un pe crush hai :/ lol jk.
      I was just referring to a certain part.

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      Quote Originally Posted by RocketSocket View Post
      Why are you so angry for? Jesus Christ. Pakistani girls are the most ugly looking creatures I have ever seen. The insides are even worse and they are wannabes. Happy?
      I find it hilarious that out of all the posts in Life1 today........MY post is the one that grabbed you as being "angry". On a more serious note.....

      Which part of my post makes you think I'm angry?

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      Quote Originally Posted by Paheli00 View Post
      I find it hilarious that out of all the posts in Life1 today........MY post is the one that grabbed you as being "angry". On a more serious note.....

      Which part of my post makes you think I'm angry?
      Get a life
      Can't you girls take a compliment? or do you have some low self esteem issues?

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      Quote Originally Posted by RocketSocket View Post
      Why are you so angry for? Jesus Christ. Pakistani girls are the most ugly looking creatures I have ever seen. The insides are even worse and they are wannabes.
      /s
      Happy?
      Edit: Pakistani female species are beautiful. Got bombarded really hard.
      Thanks yaar jo apne last line likha. Kaafi amazing hai Pakistani larkiyan. Aap apne desh ke khawateen ki tareef kariye bahut zaroori hai. i tell that to all my guy gs friends. I know jo aapne pehle likha tha you didn't mean aur woh sarcastic comment tha. Pakistani boys bhi good looking hote hain. But as this thread is on pakistani women unki tareef hi karte hain

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      Quote Originally Posted by RocketSocket View Post
      Get a life
      Can't you girls take a compliment? or do you have some low self esteem issues?
      Shayad meri galti hai yaar ki main desi hoon. Maybe if i was a white girl they would believe me and accept compliments without facts and figures but main to desi hoon mere comments ka kaun yakeen karega.

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      Quote Originally Posted by delhi2lahorekarachi:9736335
      ....And as a Pakistani girl, automatically she is quite good looking,
      Hey, u, stop saying that Pakistani guys are automatically blind. Ok?

      PS: did u buy lot of "irani rugs" from those door to door pathan salesmen?
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