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      Hi buddies

      My friend who is 28 accpeted a rishta that her family suggested, but after few months she broke her engagement due to problems related to the boy, (he was living in europe last 6 years, but his mentality was typical. She didnt feel good abt this person and broke her engagement...)

      She is very depressed this days cause she is not receving any good proposals..So Im wondering if u guys can help me to get some dua/pray/wazifa so it will help her to get a good rishta...

      Please pray for her, cause she is really depressed abt this issue

      thanks

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      first thing..there is no mentality-meter that can check whats inside...breaking this rishtaat this age..of 28...is not a sensible decision ......if this thing is done at 22 23 then its seems quite reasoable....

      however...she should read "Ya Lateefo"..very much...and we all pray that she should get a good rishta (ameen)...

      also durood ..any durood..is very beneficial...as much as can....
      best regards
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      None of these supposed prescribed "wazeefas" are authentically narrated from the Prophet Muhammad SAW to be cures for lack of proposals/rishtas.

      The best thing is just to rely on Allah SWT, make lot of Istaghfar (istaghfar lowers your sins and makes you get closer to Allah SWT), more fasting, more prayers (fardh and nawafil), charity etc.
      So more good deeds in general will help a person in their life and hereafter.
      There is salah of Hajaat. 2 nafil and then asking Allah SWT for one's need. There is a dua in Arabic but is not a must. Dua in one's own language preceded by lot of praise to Allah SWT and Salawat on the Prophet SAW is inshAllah acceptable. The act should be repeated daily or as frequently possible.

      The more a person supplicates to Allah SWT, the more he or she gets closer to Allah SWT. The burden of not having something starts to feel lighter and Allah SWT puts the feeling of contentment in a persons heart.
      For the matter is such that Allah SWT will give to His slaves what is best for them and when its the best time for them. Plus He tests us to build patience in us.

      Also, the person (and I don't mean that it applies here as well) should look at their source of livelihood as well. Duas will be rejected if the means of earning is not from lawful means (haram).

      May Allah SWT make it easy InshAllah! (ameen).
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      what is that ....i think you are jocking......

      what wazeefas have i told.......??????

      is reciting any name of Allah and durood is a wazeefa....

      its not necessary that what only wahabi scholars tell...only that is permissible to read ...!!!!!!!!!!

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      http://www.duas.org/matri.htm

      Check out this site for suitable duas

      Insha allah your friend will find a suitable rishta soon and settle down to a happy married life
      Rabbi l'a tajurni far'daw wa'anta khayrul warisin

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      There is nothing wrong in taking the name of Allah SWT or calling Him by one of his attribute names.
      But their is no connection of Ya Lateefo with proposal. If there is please show the narration of Prophet SAW that mentions it.
      It is not a wahabi thing to practice and preach what truly comes from the Prophet SAW. It is a practice of the companions of the Prophet SAW who were the best example after him.
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      everything is not coming from Prophet(pbuh).. i very much respect sunnah...but thier are few things which are told by great sufia and aulia....are you negating thier status....

      If someone ask from ulema of saudia that is reciting 500 times durood daily is permissible..immediately they put fatwa of Biddat .....

      i cannot believe in this foolishness....

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      and ya lateefo is beneficial for every purpose and its 100% authentically proved..may be here someone will justify my statement.....

      ya lateefo means .shows the purity..latafat..of Allah...and in spirtual aspect..has great importance...

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      Quote Originally Posted by dawa_i_dil View Post
      and ya lateefo is beneficial for every purpose and its 100% authentically proved..may be here someone will justify my statement.....
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      Aaj hi Raju kijiye........Baba dawa-i-dil...........Apni dili muraadon ke liye.
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      Quote Originally Posted by dawa_i_dil View Post
      and ya lateefo is beneficial for every purpose and its 100% authentically proved..may be here someone will justify my statement.....

      ya lateefo means .shows the purity..latafat..of Allah...and in spirtual aspect..has great importance...
      Lets take this discussion outside of this thread if you a really interested. The thread was not for this purpose.
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      Quote Originally Posted by dawa_i_dil View Post
      everything is not coming from Prophet(pbuh).. i very much respect sunnah...but thier are few things which are told by great sufia and aulia....are you negating thier status....

      If someone ask from ulema of saudia that is reciting 500 times durood daily is permissible..immediately they put fatwa of Biddat .....

      i cannot believe in this foolishness....
      okayyy...............
      u r referring to Islam right?....sheesh
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      Sorry artdeco, but your thread got sidetracked.....
      I really did not intend to do that.
      I hope you have found your answer. Its very important on how we connect with Allah SWT. The needs will automatically flow according to what is best for us if we truly first concentrate on our connection with Allah SWT. He SWT has already promised that He alone will fulfil our needs. And in those cases where we are not given something even though it is a halal in this life, then in reality the replacement for it will be in the hereafter in a shape and form that we can't even imagine.
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      Lets take this discussion outside of this thread if you a really interested. The thread was not for this purpose
      nope brother.. i always like to discuss openly so that all people know....

      okayyy...............
      u r referring to Islam right?....sheesh
      so aulia and sufia were not muslims....my salute....

      by the way..we all are muslims because our forefathers made muslims by them....

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      i dont know why you are so much angry on reciting a name of allah and prophet(pbuh) durood....

      just because wahabis give respect to prophet(pbuh) as just elder brother...and only raise slogans of tauheed .....not nabuwwah.....

      prophet(pbuh) was the leader of all the prophet(pbuh)..he is the best creation after allah.....and most beloved to allah...and allah himself send durood on him..why so much allergic about all these facts....

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      It seems to me that you are wahabi...........you are saying everything is not coming from Prophet(pbuh)..



      That is a very poor way of arguing dawa-i-dil.....when you don't agree with some one you start to call him/her wahabi.
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      because i know the religious attitude of ahle hadees..

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      they call sufia and aulia as deviants.... naozobillah...

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      Why are you talking about Ahle Hadith? And who's calling each other deviant here?
      You're the one who's calling others deviants and no one else is calling aulia or sufia deviants.
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