Twins born - fathers different. - Page 2

smilestar · May 21st, 2009, 11:19 AM

..and apparently she's pregnant again

fayax · May 21st, 2009, 01:07 PM

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Originally Posted by smilestar

..and apparently she's pregnant again

Already!!!!?!?!??!

FairyTale · May 21st, 2009, 01:43 PM

Her husband needs to do the DNA test again and everytime she is expecting. His wife is sooooo extremely characterless.... Y U C K ....

sheyn · May 21st, 2009, 09:06 PM

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Originally Posted by smilestar

..and apparently she's pregnant again

wonder if its twins

TLK · May 21st, 2009, 09:51 PM

You know what I am thinking. She got into that second love making session knowing that even if she gets pregnant, she can always tell her real boyfriend that she got pregnant because of him.

sheyn · May 21st, 2009, 09:59 PM

U think too much TLK Chachu

hareem01 · May 22nd, 2009, 04:03 AM

people talking about her, behind her back are very pious people, mashaAllah. They have never committed a sin.

TLK · May 22nd, 2009, 01:18 PM

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Originally Posted by hareem01

people talking about her, behind her back are very pious people, mashaAllah. They have never committed a sin.

1. you think its gheebat that I am committing?

2. is it prohibited for the people who commit sins, to mention someone else's sin?

3. are you aware of the three conditions when doing gheebat is allowed? I am sure you do.

and lastly, this is not gheebat at all. This is the expression of disgust to an immoral thing. Even prophet expressed disgust at moments towards the mistakes committed by his own companions, not to mention towards the actions of non-believers.

hareem01 · May 22nd, 2009, 01:49 PM

I have no problem in condemning the sin without glamourizing and spicing up the news with our own imagination.

TLK · May 22nd, 2009, 02:52 PM

where is the fun if you dont spice up things

FrozenFire · May 23rd, 2009, 02:53 AM

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I wonder who will be responsible for child support, IF something goes wrong between the couple.

oh, u mean the tri-couple?

FrozenFire · May 23rd, 2009, 02:58 AM

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Originally Posted by hareem01

people talking about her, behind her back are very pious people, mashaAllah. They have never committed a sin.

behind her back or not.. its a disgusting act. Sure people here have commited sins but this kinda sin is very new to me.

btw, this explains why men are allowed to have more wives in Islam.. but wives are stuck with one

.. just another way of looking at it.

hareem01 · May 23rd, 2009, 04:49 AM

^Its new only because she became pregnant with the twins, this is the only surprising part. In Western society, having multiple relationship is nothing new.

The rest of your post about 4 marriages is not related to this topic.

Everyone is blaming the woman when those two men, her parents and the society she lives in, has a part in it. But only she has to suffer because she's a female.

Gr8Heera · May 23rd, 2009, 06:34 AM

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Originally Posted by TLK

where is the fun if you dont spice up things

Spicy phun you'll see upstairs.

X2 · May 23rd, 2009, 01:01 PM

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Originally Posted by hareem01

^Its new only because she became pregnant with the twins, this is the only surprising part. In Western society, having multiple relationship is nothing new.

The rest of your post about 4 marriages is not related to this topic.

Everyone is blaming the woman when those two men, her parents and the society she lives in, has a part in it. But only she has to suffer because she's a female.

the female is not the only one that suffers. if we set aside the different scales of morals and societal acceptability, in the end based on what everyone has to go through it is an irrespionsible act, the guys are responsible for child support, and that is one system that is so massively flawed that its beyond this thread to post about it, the kids suffer because they do not have a proper family support system, although that is not true in all cases. society suffers as a whole because society picks up the slack, and that burden is distributed to all of us, everyone in that society everyone contributing to the society.

in the end everyone is responsible for their own actions, and the one who has the highest impact should have the highest ownership of the situation as well. the more you have to lose, the more skin in the game you have (pun not intended) the more you have to be responsible. because while it imapcts everyone, if you feel that you have a higher impact than other the more careful you have to be.

hiccup · May 23rd, 2009, 02:11 PM

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Originally Posted by hareem01

^Its new only because she became pregnant with the twins, this is the only surprising part. In Western society, having multiple relationship is nothing new.

The rest of your post about 4 marriages is not related to this topic.

Everyone is blaming the woman when those two men, her parents and the society she lives in, has a part in it. But only she has to suffer because she's a female.

This is exactly what I was thinking. The responses are foul.
But, I don't think I expect anything more from chauvinists.

fayax · May 23rd, 2009, 03:01 PM

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Originally Posted by hareem01

...Everyone is blaming the woman when those two men, her parents and the society she lives in, has a part in it. But only she has to suffer because she's a female.

Yes. Everyone has a part in it but...

you dont see a murderer being sent to jail and along with him the rest of the neighborhood he/she grew up in, do you?

Uncle · May 24th, 2009, 09:33 AM

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Originally Posted by hareem01

people talking about her, behind her back are very pious people, mashaAllah. They have never committed a sin.

Its not haraam to backbite kuffar.

hitchki · May 24th, 2009, 10:16 AM

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Originally Posted by fayax

Yes. Everyone has a part in it but...

you dont see a murderer being sent to jail and along with him the rest of the neighborhood he/she grew up in, do you?

Are you seriously equating sexual freedom with murder?