Speaking of Virginity did you know? - Page 2

HiNa · Oct 3rd, 2008, 10:32 AM

^ how ...lol

Mirch · Oct 3rd, 2008, 10:34 AM

Very simple. Either put a gun to his head or attach him to a lie detector and ask.

mirchi0 · Oct 3rd, 2008, 10:39 AM

HiNa · Oct 3rd, 2008, 10:40 AM

JimmyKimble · Oct 3rd, 2008, 10:40 AM

No for guys its when they say "I learned it from the movies"
And when guy know show handle equipment on both partners.

lol
what a dirty thread.

HiNa · Oct 3rd, 2008, 10:42 AM

ok but seriously isnt there anyway to find out?

brother_quraysh · Oct 3rd, 2008, 10:44 AM

hey it could be that either of them were previously married

Mirch · Oct 3rd, 2008, 10:45 AM

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Originally Posted by JimmyKimble

what a dirty thread.

It was not dirty till you made it dirty with your dirty post.

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Originally Posted by *HiNa*

ok but seriously isnt there anyway to find out?

DNA test of the kid you think has resemblance to the guy you suspect of not being a virgin.

JimmyKimble · Oct 3rd, 2008, 10:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Mirch

It was not dirty till you made it dirty with your dirty post.

Thanks!

sumorani · Oct 3rd, 2008, 11:34 AM

^ no this is ridiculous. there is no way to tell if either a man or woman have done it before unless they have told u themselves, u have pictures of them doing it, or if they have STD's and you somehow know about them.

HiNa · Oct 3rd, 2008, 11:39 AM

^ yh i knw but i was just wanderin is der any physical way to tel ...like we hav a hymen which i knw is not a reliable way to tell, as dat can be broken becos of dozens of things ....anyway.. choro

cnt explain it

sumorani · Oct 3rd, 2008, 11:44 AM

yeh and im just saying you can't tell. however, if someone does know a definitive way of telling please inform me and others.

bunnyhoney · Oct 3rd, 2008, 12:20 PM

BUTCHER?... Thats a freakin' awesome idea, dude!!... thanks for the tip on where to buy blood!

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Originally Posted by NJMasti

lol- Gina don't give retards more ideas on DNA tests... can't believe girls would have to go hunting for a bottle of blood days before the wedding - the butcher in this case would make good money - don't you think so - lollllllllllllllllllllllllllllll

midnighteyes · Oct 3rd, 2008, 12:20 PM

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Originally Posted by RupayHalwa

An afghani friend who got married about 8 years ago told me that her wedding was in a grand hotel in Pakistan, and her mother in law knocked on the door in the morning after the wedding, b4 breakfast, to check this handkerchief bit of cloth that they had to provide proof of virginity on, basically it had to have blood stain on it. When she saw it, she reported back downstairs where everyone had gathered for the formal day after wedding breakfast, and they all celebrated it. How disgusting is that?

Thats so sick, so so so sick. Cant imagine how Muslims can stoop to such disgusting levels. Shows you how twisted ignorance can make you

lublyjubly · Oct 3rd, 2008, 12:25 PM

hymens come in all shapes and size, some can be totally closed and have to be broken to let out blood when you start your period.

the funny thing is they can so thin (from development from birth) that they may not bleed at all, or the shape of your hymen means it wont bleed when broken becaus ethe hole is so big.... so you can't prove virginity whether you have one or not!!!!!

i was involved in a op where we actually had to surgically break some ones hymen as it was so thick!!!!! so you can see it is feasible that some people have a really thin ones which may break spontaneously!

subbo · Oct 3rd, 2008, 12:25 PM

wth!! what if the coupld decides not to have sex on the wedding night!! then what will they tell her..... mom.... check the bed sheets tomorrow!! yuk!! ewww!!!
and there are so many other reasons of hymen be damaged! even simple sport can lead to hymen damage!! zaroori hai keh the girl was having sex... thats why she isn't bleeding!!! its just too gross!!!

brother_quraysh · Oct 3rd, 2008, 12:28 PM

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Originally Posted by midnighteyes

Thats so sick, so so so sick. Cant imagine how Muslims can stoop to such disgusting levels. Shows you how twisted ignorance can make you

its not a religious problem - so please try not to associate religion with it

Pareezay · Oct 3rd, 2008, 12:31 PM

I had this Bosnian friend in high school who told me this practice is VERY common in their culture. The morning after wedding night, the bride and groom take the bedsheet to the parents in law to show the blood.. it is then celebrated. It's disgusting and NOONE'S bloody business (no pun intended).

Mirch · Oct 3rd, 2008, 12:31 PM

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Originally Posted by subbo

wth!! what if the coupld decides not to have sex on the wedding night!! then what will they tell her..... mom.... check the bed sheets tomorrow!! yuk!! ewww!!!
and there are so many other reasons of hymen be damaged! even simple sport can lead to hymen damage!! zaroori hai keh the girl was having sex... thats why she isn't bleeding!!! its just too gross!!!

It is sad but it is true that most men back home want to do it on the first night , most of the weddings are arranged and there is no intimacy or understanding between husbands and wives at that point of time so how can they decide mutually that they do not want to do it on their first night together.

RupayHalwa · Oct 3rd, 2008, 12:43 PM

Well, that is true that there is an expectation in some arranged marriages. I went to a wedding in pakistan last year and the poor bride was blubbering on her wedding day bcos she was scared bcos of all the stories she had heard about the man would do the deed on the first night. Everyone told her that the husband is not an animal, but she was petrified bcos she had received advice from her cousins to "allow your husband to do with u as he wants and dont scream". WTH???

Anyway, as expected, the husband was not an animal and one assumes that the deed was done when they were in mutual agreement!