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      ok so apparently suhag raat is supposed to be for checking if the bride is pure/a virgin. But, how about in all those cases when girls (through physical activity/sports/injury) break their hymen?

      is checking for "blood" on the wedding night ligit?

      how widely is it still used?


      especiallly for girls living in the U.S / Canada etc. and get married to someone from back home. aka-Pakistan. Like all my friends are in sports and maybe even use tampons for swimming etc.

      Even though this may be a personal question, but girls, anyone been through this? What happens? Do men still follow the old rule for showing the "sheets" to their moms or is it now old fashioned.. Just want an idea of how common it is in Pakistanis.

      (i just joined the forum. dont know if their was already a topic on this)

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      this subject has been disccused to death jus do a search

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      LOL. damn it ! now i hav to loook for the friggin thread.

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      pakiiloveex3, if u find it, let me know as well.

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      only if people could be nice and tolerant and answer my questions... GOSH

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      is this a teaser?

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      Islamically there is no such thing to check your wife if she bleeds the first night or not. I will find you a hadith on this matter InshAllah. but i know for sure that Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) said dont suspect your wife if she dont bleed the first night.

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      Thanks . Yea def share that Hadith with me . I just don't understand why so many women are startin to get the hymen replacement surgery if it's not even in Islam .

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      Also , if Islam doesn't teach us to suspect your wife , where did this idea / tradition of checking for blood actually come from?
      Siren likes this.

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      This is the most disgusting backwards practice ever. I'm pretty sure it is only used in the paindoo/jahil villages of Pakistan and probably some other third world countries.

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      it still happens in the villages. at least like 4-5 years ago it was still happening
      it's the heart afraid of dying, that never learns to dance; It's the dream afraid of waking, that never takes the chance; It's the one who won't be taken, who cannot seem to give; And the soul afraid of dying, that never learns to live.

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      It is very simple. Just don't marry into a family that is dumb enough to believe this kind of stuff.

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      Well said Sumo ...

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      Quote Originally Posted by sumorani View Post
      It is very simple. Just don't marry into a family that is dumb enough to believe this kind of stuff.
      agree . BUT how r u supposed to know if the family follows such things or not ?

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      this is not isolated to jahil families. I know someone whose mother in law was from a very highly educated family and the next day decided to 'change the bedsheets'...yeah right..if that wasnt checking for spots..???

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      basically if the women is behaving like she know's what she's doing, then that's when as a man u gotta start stressin !!

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      Tru . I think their are educated ppl who follow this

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      First night or any other night ... . .. sex is sooooo overrated

      off topic yeah I know

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