Trash The Dress!

mahismart · Oct 18th, 2009, 08:11 AM

Trash The Dress is a huge thing in the gora world. Longtime brides or ditched brides seem to love the idea of trashing or otherwise having fun in a wedding dress. They'll
even roll around in the mud, get it dirty and wet and take loads of pics doing it.

Now, would us desis ever want to do that? Even when you don't have a $1000 lehnga, would you ever consider 'trashing your dress'?

OR

Should our sentimental crowd start a 'preserve the dress' session that'll allow the bride to wear the dress with new style of makeup and accessories and relive the day when she felt like a princess?

So, can you bear to do this to your wedding dress?

llxxll · Oct 18th, 2009, 08:22 AM

no way.... too much sentimental value attached to wedding dress...cant do it....I like the preserve the dress idea better

Aisha Dubaiwali · Oct 18th, 2009, 08:24 AM

OMG at the first pic!

No way! My mom still has her's! I am gonna keep mine as well. No way gonna trash it :|

Btw mahi you have added a new spark to wedding forum

llxxll · Oct 18th, 2009, 08:31 AM

^^ yeah my mom still has her gharaara....and guess who is wearing it on her rukhsati?

that's right I'm gonna have additional kaam done on it have a totally new shirt and dupatta made and M gonna wear my mom's gharaara on my baraat

Aisha Dubaiwali · Oct 18th, 2009, 08:36 AM

Oh that is awesome, my mom has her whole wedding attire and outfits till now. She said she will give it to me but I doubt it I am going to be wearing it. I have this in mind.

llxxll · Oct 18th, 2009, 08:38 AM

^^ that is gorgeous where did you find that?

mahismart · Oct 18th, 2009, 09:08 AM

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Originally Posted by Aisha Dubaiwali

Oh that is awesome, my mom has her whole wedding attire and outfits till now. She said she will give it to me but I doubt it I am going to be wearing it.

Hmmmm..... that is the reason behind TTD (Trash The Dress)! Wear your dress to the fullest as your daughter might not want to wear it because she may not like it and have her own ideas.

Gulnaar Khan · Oct 18th, 2009, 09:11 AM

Arghhhh!!!

That's such a pathetic trend..How do these goras come up with such stupid stupid ideas?

Aisha Dubaiwali · Oct 18th, 2009, 09:15 AM

LOL but that doesn't mean you should trash it! You spend so much money on it and then you just cannot trash it!

Gulnaar Khan · Oct 18th, 2009, 09:18 AM

But you can probably try participating in it when you see a better design in some other store and feel the urge to buy it!

xoxo ZARA xoxo · Oct 18th, 2009, 09:19 AM

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Originally Posted by Aisha Dubaiwali

Oh that is awesome, my mom has her whole wedding attire and outfits till now. She said she will give it to me but I doubt it I am going to be wearing it. I have this in mind.

This is HOT....

Gaia · Oct 18th, 2009, 09:21 AM

I think its a great idea, however, no need to put it on fire but you can have some scenes in the water, they can be so HOT if done right!

Aisha Dubaiwali · Oct 18th, 2009, 09:22 AM

LOL tell me about it. I am in love with this dress

llxxll · Oct 18th, 2009, 09:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Gaia

I think its a great idea, however, no need to put it on fire but you can have some scenes in the water, they can be so HOT if done right!

it can be hot par humaare dresses pe jo kaam shaam ota hai unki wajah se you know kharaab nahin ho jaayenge paani mein ?

Sara516 · Oct 18th, 2009, 11:16 AM

Waste of $$.

My mom gets all sad seeing one of her dishes in the garage, i dont think our people will like the idea of trashing a dress.

AA1985 · Oct 18th, 2009, 11:42 AM

Instead of trashing it, why not give it away to some poor needy girl who's getting married? I have no idea what my mom's dresses looked like. She gave them away loooong ago.

mahismart · Oct 18th, 2009, 11:47 AM

They just don't do it to their wedding dresses only, any formal gowns, prom gowns are game too. Even the most expensive ones by well-known designers like Vera Wang.

http://www.nytimes.com/2007/06/10/fa...ress%22&st=nyt

Gaia · Oct 18th, 2009, 11:52 AM

But you can trash it in such a nice clean way! You don't have to go into dirty gross places! And btw, as long as you don't plan to run around in mud the dry cleaners can get your dress back to normal, which is what I'v seen people do.

The link below is my favorite trash the dress photoshoot, in the middle of the woods and water!
Kimberly Reed Photography

kurripunjaban · Oct 18th, 2009, 11:56 AM

I'd love to dance in the rain in my wedding dress and take romantic photos

mahismart · Oct 18th, 2009, 12:01 PM

That's the spirit, kurripunjaban! WTG! Good idea!