Crying on the wedding day? - Page 4

Bint_e_Naeem · Oct 28th, 2009, 09:52 AM

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Originally Posted by NJMasti

I think that's maturity. Your SIL has full understanding and "accepts" the good turn of events that life brings.

People who cry are mostly people who are not ready to "accept" change in life.

I so don't agree with that one.

There are no hard & fast rules that you have to cry or not cry on your rukhsati but at the same time people who end up crying its a natural thing I guess. Its not that a person is not ready to "accept" any change in their life.

That's generalizing it a bit too much.

samnawab · Oct 28th, 2009, 10:06 AM

On my ruksati we didn't cry. I was comming back to the UK with my parents, so there was no real ruksati. Also my dad was telling me in my ear that: kal mein tumhe line ahun ga, that was for pagpera.

Bint_e_Naeem · Oct 28th, 2009, 10:10 AM

^ What's a pagpera?

fairywings85 · Oct 28th, 2009, 12:17 PM

i think pagpera is when the girl comes back to her mum n dad to stay for a few days

im quite an emotional person anyway...so i think i will defo cry...like hysterically...

my cousin is getting married soon iA and i know we are ALL going to be hysterical...shes quite emotional too...it was he magani th other day and she was crying..i was crying...my brother was crying her sister was cryng...lol..

rozyuk · Nov 3rd, 2009, 07:40 PM

i think i would cry at my wedding cos am moving 100's of miles away and have no family there

xx

Tklucky8 · Nov 3rd, 2009, 11:29 PM

This thread really gets me down!! Don't want to think about that day.

mahismart · Nov 3rd, 2009, 11:44 PM

KS09 · Nov 4th, 2009, 12:26 AM

On my rukhsati my dad started crying, i started crying... so my husband kinda bundled me up and put me in the car. i asked him later why'd he hurry me up to get in the car. He said " cos seeing Dad cry was making me(him) cry"

candy_apple · Nov 4th, 2009, 02:20 PM

I didn't think I would cry but I ended up BALLING LIKE A BABY during the rukhsati. I've never cried in public in front of THAT many people like that in my entire life. And my husband's entire kandan was crowded around and watching me cry like a little baby (so uncomfy but it didn't stop me). On the bright side, even with all those tears shed, my makeup did not move an inch!

samina mm · Nov 4th, 2009, 04:45 PM

i would cry. my cousins wife didn't cry she laughed her way into the car and no one escorted her either shes just walking alongside him. looked odd.

mahismart · Nov 6th, 2009, 07:28 PM

So, this:

V/S this:

MiamisweetheartX · Nov 6th, 2009, 08:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by NJMasti

I think that's maturity. Your SIL has full understanding and "accepts" the good turn of events that life brings.

People who cry are mostly people who are not ready to "accept" change in life.

I dont think thats true. Just cause a bride cries dont necessarily mean shes not ready to accept change. It might just be that shes going to miss her old lifestyle or the easy going life a girl has with her parents is completely different from the one she lives at with her in-laws. With your parents, You can yell, scream and not answer them but yet theyre still going to love you with all their heart. At your in laws even one mistake can become hell for you!
I know many brides, who didnt cry at their wedding but were definately not prepared for all the responsibilities a marriage brings.

fasaadi · Nov 6th, 2009, 11:55 PM

^ i totally agree with that!